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Yep, I am trying not to compare as it seems to make things worse! Will keep working on that. Do you know any good poly groups in Melbourne, Australia? I know the site is US-based.

Hi Galagirl, The 'bombshell' factor is me referring to the fact that his falling in love with someone was quite sudden and not within the parameters of our relationship at the time. Therefore, the transition to poly has happened quite quickly and I am really struggling to deal with it. We...

Thanks Kevin T! I'm working on all the things you mentioned and it's definitely hard (for all involved I think!). I like what you said about the continuum, makes me feel better to know that I don't necessarily need to be one or the other but a combination of both. Have to also deal with some...

Hi, My partner and I have recently embarked on a transition from DADT to full poly and there have been a lot of ups and downs! The reason for the change is because he was recently working interstate for a short time and met a woman who he fell in love with and wanted to keep seeing her...

Thanks Kevin T, that's a huge help! :)

He would be more than happy for me to have other partners. I'm just not sure if I can do it. Think I may be sexually open but romantically monogamous. That might change if I met someone I really connect with though so it is nice to have the option available. Might try getting out there and...

My partner and I have been together for 8.5 years and have been in an open relationship for most of that time. Until recently, the rules were that we could have sexual encounters with other people and and we agreed to keep these from one another so long as it did not affect our relationship...