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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    One more KDT26417. I found out that a doctor could prescribe a unicorn. It is called Uniesta. It did come with some warnings. Uniesta is not for everyone. Do not take Uniesta if you have a heart condition or are taking blood thinners. Some people have experienced serious side effects when...
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    Thanks Nycindie. I have experienced that a few times already where she documents what I have against what she has. I often refer to my relationship as an open relationship because I do not think this is a poly relationship. We need to strive for each other to be happy and be comfortable with...
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    No problem. I checked and they are carrying them at Home Depot in the housewares department. I will pick up another one tonight after work.
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    I think it is more that being physically there. If you learned that a loved one was horribly burned in a bonfire, would you go to a bonfire an hour later because they make you feel better?
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Hey TravelGirl. Sorry this happened to you and I believe you are 100 percent justified in feeling the way you do. I think your boyfriend just might be a dolt sometimes. I also think he genuinely feels sorry and wants to make amends. I hope everything works out for the best.
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    Unicorn update I called a poly counselor who recommended that I take two unicorns and to call him in the morning. I have only had one so far and I feel great. The wife says she is feeling much better too and has proclaimed that she only gets sexually aroused around me and another woman. I...
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    I hear it is all the rage and everyone on the board has one. Woohoo!
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    I can not agree more. Maybe we will just get a unicorn. I hear that is real easy and works out great every time. j/k
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    We talked last night and we are taking a break until she gets back into her happy place again. Her issues really stem from an inability to deal with rejection. My relationship just seemed to increase her feelings of rejection from her previous relationship. She definitely needs to deal with it...
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    How far should fluid bonding go??

    wow I think this post is so interesting. I assumed that everyone used protection unless all the parties were tested for STD. I have a female friend that has four partners and she is training in sexual therapy. She is very safe with all of them and she sent me a link for Scroguard because she...
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    Am I ready for her to get physical with him?

    Take it from me, you don't want to jump into it. My relationship is open and a total mess even with the best planning and prep. Things never go the way you plan.
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    Yup. When we were open last time she was full of drama. We closed the relationship and things got awesome for two years where we discussed doing it properly this time. We really worked hard to set up a rule system and that worked pretty well but I guess she is not ready for the emotional part...
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    I guess I am more sensitive. When something like this happened to me, I was unable to function. I had to leave work. Regardless, I think that you should call it a night if a loved one gets attacked.
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    Thanks Gala. I will be more specific. The last few dates with my girlfriend have been lunch dates because it makes the wife less insecure. I am still communicating with my girlfriend every day but we have no dates scheduled because of how my wife reacts. I do talk to my wife about it but it...
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    Am I ready for her to get physical with him?

    You and I think alike Sexyserb. Read my post right before yours.
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    Am I ready for her to get physical with him?

    Ask your wife if she wants an open relationship. If she says yes, let her know you are going to start dating on OKCupid or Tinder. Create a profile and see if you are comfortable with seeing other people. Don't do it as revenge but just to test the waters for yourself. Don't do it if you aren't...
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    One more thing I thought I should add this just in case. When she gets home, you should have some flowers for her and let her initiate sex the first time. Standard protocol in this situation.
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    Did I make the wrong choice?

    Bad form Yes. That was very insensitive. You and your date should have known that was not cool. I am surprised the girl you were with still went ahead with it. I almost feel like this question is a joke and not a real question. Sorry about coming down on you so hard but this is standard 101...
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    Passive aggressive sabotage

    To start, my wife is the one that proposed an open relationship. She has dated multiple people and I have only dated one. She is currently single and I have a girlfriend. She promotes me to go on dates but then makes my life hell when I do. Currently I only go on day dates when she is working...
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    New poly-relationship has me in crisis!

    Wifey Your wife is being inconsiderate. She is more than likely not into a poly relationship. She is just really into this person and she is doing what she can to be with him. That isn't necessarily a bad thing. It is how many poly relationships start but it is the wrong way. The correct way is...
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