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neighbor It will put it in the face of your husband constantly. If he is able to deal with you dating someone, this might be too much. Also, if you break up or he does something your husband does not like, you will have tons of problems. My wife dated our neighbor across the street a few years...

Boyfriend is finally gone After dragging out the final separation with her boyfriend, they are finally not communicating anymore. I feel for her but I am so relieved because her spirits immediately went up again. However, it was so bad while the breakup was happening, I had to stop seeing my...

Thanks guys and gals. I just want her to be happy and this whole thing is bringing us both down in the dumps. I will refer her to that article Sparkle and thanks for the personal experience Mags. Kdt Always there.

are you really open? My wife surprised me too with the poly thing a few years back. I went open but it was to make her happy. It really blew up in our faces. We discussed it extensively for a few years and now we are open again. I suggest that you have him sit down with you and discuss what he...

Creeper Ugh. Now she was shopping and a creeper wouldn't leave her alone and tried to pay for her items and insisted on pushing her cart to her car. She refused both but he wouldn't let up. He had a bad vibe. She burst into tears and ran out of the store. Sometimes I just hate men. I am...

Boyfriend It wasn't anything crazy. He just started dating another girl and is doing the slow fade on her. He is a good guy as well. He always walks her to her car and is polite. It is just that the wife is taking it hard. She is going through the "no one loves me" or "no one thinks I am...

I used to think that getting used to your wife having sex with her boyfriend was the worst. I now know that your wife getting dumped by her boyfriend is twice as bad.

First date I feel like it is something that should be discussed before the first date unless you can keep the first date completely platonic. A coffee date during the day would be a good example. You don't always want to spill the beans to someone if you aren't sure if it is a match.

Good deal. Just stay diligent and enjoy the rush. NRE makes for some awesome alone time if you get my meaning. Good day.

This is at the top of my OKC profile. 12/19/14: This happened. This is a copy and paste to all the people I have liked recently. After two grueling days on OKC, my dearest friend let me know I listed myself as a woman seeking women. Being in the tech industry, this is extra shaming. I would...

NRE is great until something bad happens and then you crash. Reel it in or you are setting yourself up. Also, kind and considerate people act irresponsible when they are in the grips of NRE. Think about everyone else's feelings.

I am unable to sleep when my primary is away with her partner. We don't allow sleepovers because of this problem. I wouldn't allow it if you are not ready. If you ever go on an overnight trip, that might be a good time to try when you are ready. If you ever get your own partner, a date night for...

I got hit with a "bait and switch" too but it was slightly different. It implies dishonesty. Honesty is imperative to your relationship working even more so than a monogamous relationship.

Welcome Thanks for sharing. Everyone here is really helpful and it seems like most people have experienced the same issues. Enjoy!

Girlfriend If she is open to the idea of dating other men, can you wait until she has a love interest before you engage with your new gal? It would make things easier for her emotionally.

My wife and I have been open twice and she has been sexually active while I have not pulled the trigger. I have kissed and got heated but that is it. Well, I met a nice girl and our date felt like it was going to happen when an unluckily hiker came right down on us. We were in the woods walking...

Okc I agree about OKCupid. I can search for "not single" people which brings up the poly couples. You can list yourself as being in an open relationship as well. Most of the people I have met are single moms that don't have time for a full time relationship and a married man fits just fine. I...

Everything but I went through something very similar to what you are having to deal with a few years ago. It blew up. I asked them to just go on dates but nothing too intimate. That just seemed to make them both sex crazy. Eventually, we had to end the whole thing and lost a good friend out of...

Same here Same here. I haven't been able to find anyone where I live so I am forced to drive through traffic to a larger city nearby for dates. Just this morning we talked about that. It will be very hard to carry on a long term relationship when you have to drive and arrange meet up times. She...

First time The first time my gal had sex, I was okay with it and sent her on her way. When she got home, I was a total mess and was very depressed the next day. I had feelings of loss and I was very insecure. She was very supportive and reassured me that she loved me very much and would...