Search results

  1. YouAreHere

    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    Hugs, BB... My ex was like that as well. We used to joke about his memory, since that was easier than believing that he was just gaslighting. Of course, when I couldn't remember, I would doubt and second-guess myself. :mad: It has taken me a while to trust my intuition and memory again. I run...
  2. YouAreHere

    Next chapter

    Glad to hear some things are looking up (Sapio and his Super-Seventies Space!), and you're on the mend (although not as fast as you'd like, I'm sure, given how you've been feeling). Hopefully, you get some steady progress and things start feeling better soon. Hoping Pixi heals up quickly, too...
  3. YouAreHere

    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    Woot! Happy birthday! :D
  4. YouAreHere

    Religion, politics, sex .. and other taboo subjects

    Great googly moogly. Our science classes have failed us.
  5. YouAreHere

    Not Dead Yet!

    Hugs, Opal... :(
  6. YouAreHere

    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    Thanks! It's a relief after going into the test resigned to what I was going to get (and hoping I wouldn't have to retake it any time soon). :)
  7. YouAreHere

    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    Thanks, Kevin! The test was today, and - yay! - I did well on it! So, instead of going back to work in the afternoon (I was so wiped), I went home, did some grocery shopping, then sat out on the new deck with a glass of wine and my Kindle for a while. The one thing about getting a certification...
  8. YouAreHere

    Next chapter

    Good vibes to you, Mags! So glad they could get you in that soon! And yep, better to drop what doesn't work (the PT practitioner) and go with what does. I'm glad things are improving in that respect. And I'm glad Pixi has been there for you. I get the "playing with Legos" bit. Lol. I tidied up...
  9. YouAreHere

    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    Procrastinating. I'm in a crash course this week to get my Security+ certification. M-Th is the class, Friday is the test. Wham-bam-thank you ma'am. My head is spinning with port numbers, encryption methodologies, authentication protocols, you name it. This week is "YouAreHere is a VERY BORING...
  10. YouAreHere

    Poor little mono

    Yup. I've had all sorts of conversations, from, "You should find another BF too so you can have more than just half a relationship," to, "he's disrespecting you," to, "is he REALLY that good in bed?! You deserve better." Ugh. Fist bump to you. I've heard it before, I've asked for my friends to...
  11. YouAreHere

    The Best Life Yet

    If those shorts are the padded variety, pick up some Body Glide and lubricate the hell out of your lady bits (especially around where those seams will hit)! Just sayin'... I teach a spin class at work, and those damned pants cause the worst chafing EVER. Don't want one problem to recede while...
  12. YouAreHere

    It's a Texlahoma Story

    So much of your "TMI" situation sounds like me. When I see Xena and Chops's posts on Facebook, it drives up the envy and competition in huge ways: mushy stuff, dates, you name it. And I'm right there with you on the "please don't share too much about us, either." Partly, it's that I don't like...
  13. YouAreHere

    New Navigation

    Glad to see you with a new blog. Here's hoping it grows to feel more and more comfortable over time. The only thing I take exception to in this post is the fact that spiderbros can be your friend. ;) Fuck the haters, and the douchebags who would out you and call you crazy. Double-fuck them for...
  14. YouAreHere

    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    Started watching Stranger Things last night. OMG, I love it! Only watched the first episode so far, but I believe this is going to have to lead to a binge-watching. :D And the SOUNDTRACK! :cool:
  15. YouAreHere

    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    Welp... The talk happened. It feels... unfinished, I think. We ate first, mostly in awkward silence. Once Xena felt ready to talk, she mentioned how she felt that we used to talk about *everything*, and even if it wasn't something directly related to her, then she'd at least get a heads-up...
  16. YouAreHere

    Tremendous Feelings of Guilt...

    Hugs, Vin... Please allow yourself time to heal. You don't have to tell MK anything right now, and I'm sure she (and everyone else) will understand if you need to take time to grieve. It's okay - and it's healthier for you - to do that. It's even okay to let everyone else take care of you...
  17. YouAreHere

    monogamists: threat, or menace?

    My thoughts on this thread: While I appreciate Spork's thoughtful commentary, I still find the language divisive. When the term "Big-M Monogamist" is used to mean the overzealous, self-righteous, judgmental twats versus "Small-m monogamists" who don't pull that crap and seem to be a-ok, over...
  18. YouAreHere

    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    It's probably a bit too late for this statement, but I'll say it anyway: this blog thread is my place to vent emotion, work through things I'm still chewing on, etc., without having to be all polished and... well... *nice*. A diary of sorts, with people on the other side who are fully welcome to...
  19. YouAreHere

    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    Definitely "Physical Therapist" - I didn't realize personal trainers were using the same term; seems pretty confusing at best, misleading at worst. Thanks for the exercises! I'm sure my PT guy knew better, but he was hoping for more sessions when insurance cut me off. He was focusing far more...
  20. YouAreHere

    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    Oh, definitely whacky. :D And no... Insurance said I was done, so I'm done. Sigh.
Back
Top