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Blur - Tender

So here's an update: Things are good. Still very sensitive, but very good. The weekend came and went and I survived it. Learned from it, even. The days since have been a bit of a blur for me. I feel like something in me has broken. Call it pride. Call it an old-fashioned sense of comfort and...

I will begin by saying welcome. Though you already know you are. Everyone here, including you, dear reader, is an astronaut. We see the world as a whole. We launch ourselves out past the stratosphere and congregate in the vastness of space. We communicate our every move and trust that our fellow...

Well, there's an approach I hadn't considered. And not one that I think would do much for me, to be honest. I'm still much more comfortable keeping it at arm's length. Being aware of their intimacy level is enough for me. I don't find myself needing that much information. Also, I believe they...

Eat That Chicken - Charles Mingus

"Concern yourself less with love and more with loving." Catfish

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How lucky, indeed.

worry Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy. ~Leo Buscaglia

Firstly, wow, River. I really appreciate you. Like, you have no idea how well we would get along sitting across a table from each other with a few empty beer bottles between us. When I first joined this forum, it was your words that gave me the most insight. And now, after having grown in my...

Poly is the new gay.

Punch Brothers on Prairie Home Companion

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Thanks. This difficulty has been awesomely exhausting. I have learned so much about myself in the last few weeks, it's humbling. Not the least of which is that difficulty is always an opportunity for growth. And as today is Thanksgiving, I offer thanks to this community, my endlessly loving...

Thank you again for all your responses. Especially yours, Rarechild, my love. It's been difficult to shine lately. Difficult to put into words how my love for RC and my deep want for her happiness has actually brought me pain... which I am willing to endure. But it does hurt. It invades my...

Thank you all for your advice. This is why this forum is so great. They are spending a couple days together. I'm headed up north with my band for a couple shows and some time to sort through my thoughts on this. And there's lots to sort through.

It's been a while, gang. But here I am with a heart full of uncertainty, seeking your wisdom. I'll cut to the chase. RC (my wife) and I have discussed polyamory for over a year and have had one unsuccessful attempt at it with a lady friend of mine. RC recently got the opportunity to expand a...

Welcome! (It's polyamorous, by the way)

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