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My partner of 8 years (male) and I don't have many rules, it works for us. Our only rules are to be open and honest in all we do so before I progress or am thinking of progressing with any relationship I ask him how he would feel and if it is okay. This isn't because he has asked me to its just...

Thanks :-D your comments are wonderful and help a lot! Hope you have been well.

It's been a while... Well its been a while and a lot has happened in what has felt like an eternity when it's only a month or two! We moved house just B, our daughter and I to a smaller house temporarily while we save and I continue to study and be a stay at home Mum. I signed up to start my...

I resigned from my job so that I could be with our daughter full time :-) We are downgrading our lifestyle and house so that this is possible :-D

New Year, New Start So its a new year and I've been busy packing and soon moving to a new house! I still miss T very much but I am learning to cope a bit more :-) I have recently begun a new relationship with a male friend of mine that both B and I have known for about 4 years now. He is very...

Thank you bassman. I am very fortunate that I have B and his support. I also have a very small and very supportive friend group :-) only 2 of my friends know I am poly and have both said "it makes sense that I am because of how loving I am" haha so its nice to know there is some people out there...

Thank you Kevin :-) I am just trying to stay as positive as I can on all fronts. Onwards and upwards! :-D

onwards and upwards Sorry I haven't replied earlier. I've been swamped with work lately. I finally had a meeting with my boss (she was always too busy but I said it was important so she saw me). I said I was unhappy with the amount of hours I have for work and she has agreed that after the 8th...

Thank you for the advice :) Thank you so much Kevin and TurquoiseMouse, your advice and insight means a lot to me :) it had been nice to just have today to really sort things in my head in regards to my job. My therapist said that the way they are treating me is a form of bullying in the sense...

I'm really thankful I have this place to come though and vent and to be who I am. So thanks for that :)

what to do... So I left off by being drowned in work and struggling with those feelings of trying to get home and work life balance. Recently I've been struggling with both those things and B has not been at all happy with how many hours they've been expecting me to work especially with a 2...

Thanks kdt! Feeling so very drowned in work atm. I'm usually a person who has more of a family time than work time so am feeling very overwhelmed and down about the work time coming over the family time. Especially because my daughter (who is 2) is not coping at all with it very well. So far...

Working Working Working So lately I've been working working working... I feel like I haven't had much time with the family at all. First day off will be Christmas day and then back to work boxing day till the 8th Jan so far.. Not enjoying being away from my daughter at all! So we've planned a...

Thanks Kdt. We did have a great V going. We were all open and honest with each other which was very new to me as none of my partners I'd had in the past were. T still struggles with her feelings for me but in the end lying to her parents and not being supported by them at all for our...

T Saw T yesterday for my daughters end of year Christmas party. It was the first time we had seen each other since breaking up. I was to be honest expecting it to be really awkward but it ended up being really lovely and nice. I still miss her and us a lot. Miss the kids and miss planning our...

Minus one T and I went without talking for a few weeks and we were both in avoidance mode I think which at the time was working. However we had to see each other at something and my heart just broke all over again. So we endedup talking etc and decided on friendship not just for our sakes but...

So continuing where i left off So two weeks felt like an eternity not seeing T, thankfully there was texting involved. I couldn't get her off my mind and really just wanted to see her as soon as I could. At this point I had no idea whether or not she was in to women, or even in to me. I myself...

So my life completely changed a year and a half ago. In walks a beautiful blonde blue eyed goddess (well in my eyes anyway). We soon became friends, then good friends, then close friends and all of a sudden more than friends. Which is where the story would end had've I not been in a committed...

hello :) Hi There, I'm in a similar position as you are. I'm new to poly and have been in a mono relationship with my partner for 8 years. I wasn't even aware of polyamory until the beginning of this year when I fell in love with a girl who became my girlfriend and due to confusing feelings I...

I had a lot of fun doing this test/survey! Thanks for that :)