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  1. J

    Poly-curious?

    And don't worry, I can't see how to close my account, but I've unsubscribed from emails and I won't be back...
  2. J

    Poly-curious?

    Er, I'm pretty sure I never asked for anyone's opinion about poly? I'm not even a little bit interested in anyone's ideas and theories about it! I just introduced myself as someone curious to meet poly people in my area because I want some experiences. "Please tell me im right" about what? I...
  3. J

    Poly-curious?

    lol, yes thank you but I really didn't need pointing out that sex isn't the only part of relationships or even of being lovers (obvious to the point of absurdity), nor was my post a request for an orgy or wife swap. I didn't say polyamory was about sexuality, I said we were highly sexed and that...
  4. J

    Poly-curious?

    'a lot' and 'very' in the first post are both loaded with negative judgements and I think it is understandable that I felt the twinge of defensiveness to posts calling into question the rightness of our decision to have a look on a poly website or chat to poly people about finding a casual gf or...
  5. J

    Poly-curious?

    We're looking to have a sexual relationship with someone together, not to put keys into a bowl and swap wives or to get into orgies with lots of strangers (although I've got nothing against those things and I don't think one should be snobbish about sex for its own sake either). An open...
  6. J

    Poly-curious?

    That makes me feel a bit judged. I know you're just trying to share your thoughts with me and I thank you for trying, but you used jackal language so I ended up feel offended. 'a lot' implies that I'm a complete ignoramus and to assume you can tell my focus and correct the wrongness of it from...
  7. J

    Poly-curious?

    My gf and I are both open-minded and highly sexed. We've been together a year and established immediately that we might both want to stray at some point for physical excitment. We're still very happy and very much in love, but we're initerested in the idea and theory of polyamory, even though we...
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