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This conversation literally just happened Thursday night. She's known nothing up to this point. I was spiraling but not crazy spiraling luckily because I was seeing my therapist. I'm actually doing quite well until this as I'm still trying to work out my feelings about Sweetie. I also don't know...

She did ask because I told her that I kind of went down a spiral all of a sudden and she asked what possibly could have caused such a dramatic change and I was about to but told her I wasn't ready to talk about it, so unfortunately I didn't. And I was terrified of how she would have reacted...

The cat's out of the bag..... So this just happened last night after I got home from a business trip: I say hello to Baby and my son and start to unpack and what not. Baby follows me into the kitchen and asks me point blank "do you want to have other relationships?" My body immediately...

So I finally had another session with my therapist and we discussed coming clean with both of them but since my primary relationship is with Baby I need to honor our relationship first. Baby would ask if I had talked to Sweetie yet and if I did she may be more hurt since I didn't come to her...

Hey vinsanity, I accidentally put a name in a post and was told a moderator could change/delete it. Can you do this for me please? Thank you.

So it's been a couple of crazy weeks and had my first therapy session and that went very well. I hadn't seen sweetie in over a month which was good because I really was able to focus and try and figure things out. There was a wedding last night of a mutual friends daughter of sweetie and I. Of...

Thanks ktd, I'm sure it will. So Sweetie has gotten back with her horrible boyfriend that is a complete douche. She just chooses to forget everything that has happened in the past and he actually makes her think that she has done him wrong. Maybe part of my infatuation is wanting to help her...

Thanks lunabunny, I completely agree with you, I'm still trying to sort all of my feelings and needs out. I have scheduled my first therapy session for the 21st so I'm actually excited to get some of this off of my chest with a real human. No offense to you guys at all you have been great and...

Thank you lunabunny and I couldn't agree more. The more I think about it I don't think Baby would ever agree and would probably react exactly how you propose. Baby and I were on a date Saturday night and we were walking down a street in a very busy little neighborhood in our city and I caught 2...

Thanks for the advice SC. And it seems like very sound advice at that. I'll definitely be taking my time if it happens. Like I said I need to make sure I'm really feeling what I'm feeling or if it's just a pipe dream. Thanks again!

Well, I made an introduction and have been lurking for a couple of weeks now. I can definitely say I'm not poly because I have never actually been in a poly relationship but I still feel the same way about my two loves of my life. And the back story: I've been married going on 14 years...

I actually feel the exact same for my wife and her, so I can say I am in love with her and we actually say that to each other sometimes. It's not all about the sex for me (though I would love to obviously). I'll be writing a longer thread on a different section going over everything in more...

Thank you Emm!

That's exactly what happened! Thanks, that's exactly what happened. I had to type the CAPTCHA 4 separate times and I must have put it on the wrong line. :)

Hello all, It was nice to find this site. I've been looking around for a while now and really find all of this very interesting. I don't want to make this to long as my first post was deleted as spam. It was pretty long. But on the short I'm married to my beautiful wife going on 14 years and...