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My head knows all of this, but my heart just can’t move on 💔😭 but I know I need to. I just have to figure out how.

I have taken a deep dive the last two weeks until self-care, which includes therapy, reiki, massage, etc… I have also been seeking out advice from those that are in polyamorous relationships on forms such as this one. I’m trying to sit with all the information and really decide what I need to do...

Thank you for this. You are reiterating what everyone has been telling me. I have been struggling a lot. Tonight they are sleeping together. Monday I’m supposed to visit with her and stay for a week. She told me she just wanted to remain in the space she’s in with the other person, so...

Oh boy, that hits hard. And I already see it with this new person. This new woman is giving constantly already just a few weeks in. And it hurts even more because my person says the new person is soooo much like me. It leaves me feeling confused. She already could have had me. I can’t do the...

Yes 😢 but I just ignored it

This is what all my friends say. She knows I’ve always been there , ALWAYS. She’s been my best friend and my lover.

Thank you for all that. This is so hard. The hurt comes in waves and I hate it. I think it’s also highly emotional because we are both women. 💔

Is this just her way of keeping me in the picture ‘just enough’?

I’m not ready to walk away but this hurts. What are the pluses? Good question. I think it’s because she’s just there. I think I kept hoping that she would organically take it to the next level. And it’s really hard because she says, "I feel all of these things for you. I just can’t have them...

Why does she constantly tell me she loves me? Is it because she knows I’ll always give her anything she wants? It’s also hard because this new person is sooooo similar to me. Even she has said so. She’s said you both are very much alike.

I have been in and on again off again relationship, although she does not want to refine it as a relationship, for 7 1/2 years. A little over two years ago, she had an experience. It was only five days, but she was on vacation with someone, and she was hung up on that experience for two years...