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Ah, I see, this is the problem. I apologise, but I misinterpreted that as a laugh at me, a kind of 'ho ho, another one of these idiots'. In that context your comments did seem to be making a lot of assumptions about me, which didn't make sense for the reasons you just pointed out. I like to try...

No, what I meant was that I've heard this before: You assume I haven't tried all of these things before, never mind continuing to do them now, with little result. Just like they do. You assume that obviously I can't have done these things because I'm still depressed, and if I did then I'd be...

Thanks NYCindie, I appreciate the reply, and the first half was really useful to hear. Unfortunately, the second half read like something my therapists have been saying for years, and while I understand some people need to hear this kind of thing, I've already heard it before. I feel like I...

I'm glad you're being honest, because I'm not looking for easy answers, I want to find the right ones. I don't expect trying polyamory will instantly cure everything, I'm just trying to figure out if not trying it is making me worse, and I guess I'm on here posting instead of actually trying it...

Yeah, I figured this might be the answer, but I'd still like to see if there is anyone else who was in the same position and what it was that helped them. In an ideal situation I would continue to see the mental health people and they would figure out what was causing it, but I have a suspicion...

Hi everyone, I've been reading through the vast swathes of advice and newbie threads, and while there is a lot of helpful stuff I can't seem to find anything specific enough to me to help sort my head out. I'm a straight guy in my mid-twenties, in a mono relationship of 3 years with an amazing...