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I hate where there are more things in my life causing me stress than not.

One thing I have learned from all of this... next time I have another relationship (because honestly I feel right being poly and I do need something to let my completely submissive side out) I'm not going to do it with hierarchies. As to why I don't end it? I love him too much. I want him in my...

So remember how I stated I was scared that things won't be good for me because I'm just the secondary and of she says I go then I go (after over a year relationship and four year friendship) is just creeping up more and more. Whatever discussion about if things are broken beyond repair and what...

I'm with you. One of the things with the idea of consent I've seen talked about on FetLife in regards to kink is that you don't force your kink on someone because that is taking away their ability to consent to it.

Rather than trying to do a long followup I'm just going to post this short one and anything that happens before another post (or any major event) will just get edited in. Gave Woodsmith a quick fill in (basically just a lot of tension at home and there had been fighting and arguing last night)...

Waiting for the dust to settle but I don't think things are going to be okay. So I got home, got a good cry/yell/whatever out while still alone. Lamian comes home and we are civil but she pretty much holed herself up in her and Seven's bedroom. A little talking off and on, particularly about...

Guess we might find out. Even though she had said it was fine if we were by ourselves of us having our dynamic today while Seven was at work Lamian decided it wasn't good. So I'm going to make it clear to Seven that something needs to change (by the end of the month or at the least have made...

Really looking forward to tonight. Woodsmith is at his parent's farm and Lamian is going to be at Darkeyes. Why does this make me excited? Because for the first time since the disolving of the more lifestyle M/s Seven and I are not just going to be able to play but from the moment I pick him up...

Finally starting to feel less "OMG tired" from Gen Con so I feel like I can type about it/things I've learned from it. Got to Indianapolis around 6ish when you add in the time change Wednesday. Got badges/event tickets and a friend who was working the con (one of MANY working the con) gave us a...

I know you may not read this but possible others may so I still want to make this post. Did you really learn anything from what happened? Two of the things I noticed with Matt as his problems with the poly has two aspects. 1) The time away from him and the kids. So you don't have a...

My group uses condoms for birth control when a female isn't currently on a method.

Our group has been sexually closed for over a year (mainly due to not having time or the people we are seeing having a rule in place from another partner for no sex) so since the last time we all tested negative on a full panel I don't think any of us have been tested (probably been about 6...

I have two rings. One I got for things that are hardy on rings (titanium steel). Since my regular ring (the one with the stone) is uncomfortable when Seven holds my hand (his and Lamian's are both flat) I will wear my flat titanium steel one when we are together.

I know these are old, but I'm bored and have nothing better to do than bump fireplace threads with stuff I can say. I am currently playing D&D (3.5) as a half elf druid (with plans to take a level of a 3.0 prestige class Tamer of Beasts). Want to play pathfinder, but at the moment have the...

Crafts, spend time with my other partners or friends.

This sentence makes it sound like he's really not into poly (having multiple relationships) and would be better with swinging (and the type of swinging where each couple is in the same room) or just threesomes and orgies. If this isn't what you want then you guys will have to decide what to do.

More random life post. Recently I've realized that I want my clothing style to match my personality. I'm not sure why, but there's something about having my feelings/person revealed in my clothing that just interests me. So I'm slowly working on transforming my wardrobe from what it is (a...

Talked with Seven about what I posted last (Woodsmith not coming to bed) and my desire to spend time with him when Lamian isn't home because of that. He spoke with Lamian to make sure that didn't go against what she is okay with and her only stipulation is that I also call Woodsmith out on this...

I think the 5 scales are too few. For Woodsmith and Seven, 5 is pretty much where the relationships are, only without the details of sex (intimacy yes, because they both want to know that the relationship with the other is going all right for me emotionally).

Good questions, and I'm unsure of the answers. Particularly since she isn't comfortable with the relationship in the first place. On a different note, I have something I'm going to first ask Seven and then tell Woodsmith. This past week (and just so you know Woodsmith doing this has been an...