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I guess the thing that makes it a difference is that it would need to be more than one person stating that. Right now N8 and ancilla are dating a couple who we all like but they don't necessarily want to have the idea of the whole family set up or things like that. Which means that at the end...

Nope. In fact in regards to relationships, anyone who is connected to a person would have to agree to it (so if Tighearn wanted a new relationship that either I or ancilla wasn't comfortable with he would not pull the dom card to make it work). We practice a family style semi-polyfi structure in...

I haven't posted much on this site since getting in my relationship with Tighearn. Partly because unlike my last relationship where I was a secondary without rights (and it was an unhealthy relationship) this one is egaltarian. I chose to respond because my family is a leather family. And not...

For me this topic has become more pressing due to the fact I have developed medication induced asexuality. The meds are being changed because I don't like it but if they don't work with this med change I'm not going to keep screwing with my health just to be able to have sex. Thankfully both my...

If a non-latex male condom (due to the lube being on the outside) irritates you, look into the female condoms. They are still lubed but from my understanding that's on the inside of the condom so the lube wouldn't be against your skin as much.

If you can't find a male condom big enough why not look into female condoms? Then his length and width won't be as much a concern.

Two female litter mate kittens. I have a feeling they have a larger housecat somewhere in there family because they aren't even a year old yet and are up to 9 lbs. That's Kisses. That's Marilyn.

Not yet. My pcp only tested ANA (lupus) and rheumatoid factor. When I see the rheumatologist on the 24th he'll probably do more intensive testing because neither test are definitive for lupus or rheumatoid arthritis directly, just for an auto immune disease in general.

Been a while since I've posted. Poly life is going incredibly well. And I'll post more about that soon. Personal life, not so well. I'm undergoing diagnostic testing to see what auto immune disease I have. Prime contender is lupus. I'd hate to see what I may have if none of the auto immunes pop...

You have slight preference of Introversion over Extraversion (22%) You have moderate preference of Intuition over Sensing (38%) You have moderate preference of Feeling over Thinking (50%) You have moderate preference of Judging over Perceiving (56%) If I remember the type of person that is...

If nothing happened, no it's not cheating or an affair. But if you decided to still get together, kiss, have sex, go on dates and hide that from his wife, yes it is an affair and cheating.

There's a world a difference between polyamory (where everyone involved at least knows that people have multiple relationships) and an affair you are hiding from a partner.

It doesn't matter what other people who aren't in my relationships think of them. I know that my relationship with Tighearn (despite both of us being married) is going to be long term, highly committed, and other than a piece of legal paper work out to being a marriage. I know that ancilla's...

My ideal poly situation: my husband and me either sharing a home with the rest of the poly family, or being just a house or two away. A plot with a main house and mother-in-law house would be the best, since we'd be in the same place, and my husband could still know there is space just his or...

Another possibility for financing a home in this situation in a conservative area is forming an LLC or some other legal grouping with you three as members. Then have the LLC be the party that finances/buys the house.

I am at my poly saturation point of two. With my job, photography, and fire performing, I don't have the time to make sure more than that would get considerable time for a long lasting and committed relationship. If I was to do any more than that I would end up cutting ties with friends and I'm...

I was always a serial monogamist growing up (hadn't heard of open relationships or poly until I was about 23). When I would start having feelings for multiple people I would always end up choosing one and cutting ties from all others because that's what I thought you were supposed to do. After...

I hate how much my ex screwed with my head. I keep getting triggered of the fears and issues he started in me.

Opal, with your request I edited my latest blog post changing initials to a name. Others will be given those as they are talked about.

Been a while since I posted last. The weekend before Valentine's day I told Tighearn (SB from previous) that I loved him (he repeated the same). I know for some people that may seem early since we have only been taking since August and dating since November. Both of us through have felt like we...