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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    Decided against leaving the note. Writing it was just cathartic for me. And I know I can be civil when our paths crossed and if Seven is unable to do the same that will only speak on him, not me. But I wanted to share the note for you all. Seven, I know you may not read this, but I knew you...
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    So I know I may be crazy but I've written a note to leave Seven after Woodsmith and I move in the mail slot. There are too many social circles we cross so there needs to be civil abilities.
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    What does it take for him to see a problem?

    Yes, I do actually. Work, family, friends partners, new people meet all get told if I'm feeling ill and not get to close or share a drink if they don't want to possibly get ill themselves.
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    Today: going to hang out with KB and SP at a discussion on sociopathy. Tomorrow: Woodsmith and I sign lease and start bringing over boxes. Thursday: first official date with SB. All I know is chocolate will be involved and to dress nice. Friday: spend day moving boxes. Saturday: big move day and...
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    Lease to be signed Wednesday and move Saturday. Both Lamian and Seven have been bitchy about this whole thing, can't wait to more or less be out of their life.
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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    Thanks Meera. And I agree. Like I said, I need to not let his negativity affect me.
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    Ugh, I hope I get to sign this lease Wed. and move Sat. Apparently someone in my house seems to think moving on is replacing them. You know instead of actually being in a healthy spot and able to live my life again. Must let his negativity run off my back. I'm in a good place. I have Woodsmith...
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    Relationship Configurations

    That is perfect. And it looks like less of a mess that way.
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    They don't even have a lease. They are paying month to month for their place. I think I'd be less irritated about paying some if they were fine with us only paying half of what we normally do because we could be there till mid December. There is definitely some NRE, and not just on mine and...
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    Relationship Configurations

    I think once you add in what is considered the extended post family by KB it's a tangle. The family is an extended w. Woodsmith to me to SB to KB to NT to SP. The tangle add on: KB and NT are dating a girl L (fully separately, not set up as a triad), L is dating a couple Umbra and Pet, Pet is...
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    Got approved for the new place. Just need to figure out with Woodsmith when he decides to wake up when to sign and move. Only downside is Seven and Lamian had known we were looking and planning to move. But she stopped getting her unemployment so they still need us to pay half the rent for the...
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    Yesterday I feel more in love with a store. LUSH. I've loved their products since I used them but yesterday I realized that they are just awesome all in all. Go in. Salesperson asks what I'm looking for. "A Christmas present for my boyfriend's wife". Not an eye was blinked, she just asked what...
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    What does it take for him to see a problem?

    Even if she and her husband were fine with her having herpes, the ex girlfriend decided to not disclose her status (lie of omission) until after some sort of sexual contact and allow them to make their choice on that. That on its own makes it understandable for that relationship to have ended.
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    Update time. Woodsmith has been doing some studying for tests as well as hunting so he's been busy with that. The night of the 21st I met SB, KB, NT, and SP for dinner at Red Robin. The waitress we had was really awesome and also didn't ask questions (or seem weirded out by SB sitting/cuddling...
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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    Again I'll have bunches of updates once on a regular computer and not my phone (long posts on that suck). But my big stuff seems to happen when I'm not hear a computer for a couple of days.
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    Please Help! Boundary Issue

    The thing is, the way you do this (being too forceful and I have to say very bitchy and high horse like) is actually going to make you do more problems for the causes. If you can't change how you approach people (in person or online) the causes and rights you want to fight for would be better...
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    Turned in rental application. Now the waiting game for approval
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    Place I looked at with Woodsmith yesterday was a slum. So unless the place on Thursday is Oh My God Amazing (being $175 more than the place I saw over the weekend) I think we know which one we are hoping to get. Woodsmith is going to drop off the application Friday morning. Hopefully by the...
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    So Saturday I'm playing cards against humanity with some people from one of the kink groups. Woodsmith is going hunting. SB, KB, and NT are also going. KB also invited me to be part of a poly q&a the three of them are going to since SB and I are now dating. It's really nice to get accepted by...
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    One of the nice things is that SB not only encourages me to have open conversation with KB, KB is extremely approachable. I think she may think SB and I are moving too slow. He and I have realized we need to work on figuring out everything in regards to what we desire from everything and D/s...
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