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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Dag, that would be stupid for them to do. If they can't keep the kids acting right with each other someone needs to step in. I'm a bubble of excitement for my performance tonight. And realizing that next week is going to be crazy busy.
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    Feeling disgust towards my SO

    I'm not sure what to tell you because there has been times when Seven and I were together that after he would have been with Lamian (or when he was still dating Peaseblossum) that if he saw me after they had sex he would come over to me and spend a decent amount of time kissing me and cuddling...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    OMG, I so hope I get this job. Good job (something I would love), good pay. Oh please.
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    If you want to love me you have to love my spouse?

    It's probably why even though her and my lives are different in many ways I do find where she comes from in this topic as much more up my alley. I date the same way. I want a friendship to be there before something romantic would happen (especially if there's any sort of D/s or M/s element). May...
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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    Wishing I knew what to do to help Seven. It's hard still being in love with him, caring about him so much, not being able to be with him, and seeing him distraught. Last night was the first Wednesday (what was our night) when we ended up in house alone. I actually at one point had to go to bed...
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    Advice or guidance

    Fyi, if you want a committed relationship and not date solo, you are going to need to be okay with the other person having another relationship as well. Expecting them to be only with you, and not be able to have legal benefits, or in some cases, not have children of her own if she wants, will...
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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    So I joined a couple of groups. One just for me and one Woodsmith can do also. One is a local submissive group that had monthly discussions and one is a local poly discussion group (online and monthly face to face). Still planning on doing munches ad often as possible. Saturday I'm performing...
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    Overnight jealousy

    Woodsmith just did projects. He found things to keep him busy. But that's also what he would have done with me home.
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    If you want to love me you have to love my spouse?

    If I'm needing alone time (particularly when I'm working on photos) you better leave me the fuck alone. Otherwise you're going to have a bitch on your hands.
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    Overnight jealousy

    I'll ask Woodsmith when he gets home if he had difficulty when Seven and I started having our overnights (weekly) and how he handled them.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Overwhelmed. Got an additional 13 or 14 pictures added to my portfolio for Thursday's interview, took about 900 photos at a show (first round of edits brought them down to under 500 now doing the hard edit to see how much more they drop), then was eating with a group of the people till 4 in the...
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    Mom, Where are we going? Crazy dear.

    This. He's made it clear over and over that he wants Chimpmunk more than you and only doesn't want you/Wolf to hate him. Make the choice for him. Tell him you are done and he needs to move out.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Getting to a good point emotionally after the break up (we'll see how things go on his birthday and our anniversary when they hit). Feeling a bit overwhelmed about looking for a new place (just trying to get times to look at places and figure out which works the best). Really excited and hoping...
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    Poll - physical copies of STI screens

    Even during my slutty phase (yay for bad decisions after traumatic things) I didn't ask for proof of STD status. I just kept myself tested on a very regular basis. After I got out of that I hit a point where I decided I wouldn't have sex with someone unless I could trust them to be honest to me...
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    BDSM discussion

    I don't have problems doing it on my own. I like to do all those things. But it just ignites a different part in me when I know my actions are pleasing someone, and my listening to them brings them joy.
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    Being Fair

    It honestly sounds like you have a very decent split. Particularly if it is okay that say if there's an extended time you want to spend with the gf (say you guys have a major event like her birthday or your anniversary) you can (ditto in regards to your partner). Your girlfriend gets lonely...
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    Mom, Where are we going? Crazy dear.

    Honestly you need to get a restraining order on her. She's getting dangerous to both you and Wolf.
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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    Non poly update. This week I had an over the phone interview with a photography organization that does newborn pictures in the hospital and on location family photos. This coming Thursday I have an in person interview with the head hit from out of Chicago. If I get it. Full time, salaried with...
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    If you want to love me you have to love my spouse?

    For myself and Woodsmith the only time we'd really want to meet is if it's going to go past a dating stage to an actual relationship. Myself just so whoever he is with does know that I'm cool with it (something I've seen women in general have a harder time believing). Him because of the fact I...
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    BDSM discussion

    I'm someone who needs a D/s relationship. Woodsmith and I tried, but it doesn't work for us. He needs someone that will give him a fight for dominance, and doesn't know what to do with someone once they are at a submissive level. I, on the other hand, need someone who just by their presence is...
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