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  1. Oldpolyman

    What are you listening to now?

    Lately I'm ennamored with Amethystium, a group from Norway. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=e0X2quDCtUs
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    decreased libido with multiple partners

    Our Dr. says that sex will someday be a fond memory, but if I can be so bold, we haven't slowed down at all, but sometimes snuggling and cuddles are better than sex. Hugs :p >
  3. Oldpolyman

    What words do you use - lover, partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, something else?

    My wives! :) It's always been my wives, unless I was dating one then it was gf, but since we've been out it's wives, and they call me their husband! Btw, it sort of ticks me off, I can call the ladies my gf's, mistresses, even my purple dinosaurs and nobody gets excited, but if I move the...
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    child custody and poly

    Child in poly relationship, DCF Just a guess, with all the alternative relationships, the DCF is only going to look at whether the child is safe and secure. One of my acquaintances works for the local CPS (DCF), he tells me that they don't look at all the crazy things they used to worry about...
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    Shift from Poly to Mono (Long)

    Poly to Mono upon Spouse (s) passing We've talked over the possibility of one of us passing, since as you probably know we're seasoned citizens. Jo and Marie have assured me that if I should die before them, they will honor my memory by not remarrying, but I'd want them to be happy, so martyrs...
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    Is this the right environment for polyamory?

    :eek: Oh no, I hadn't thought of the ladies initials as causing confusion, I guess I'm an offender. So here to fore J will be Jo, and M will be Marie. Hugs
  7. Oldpolyman

    Legal definition of polygamy: Surprise!

    The judge ruled that Utah's law had been used by the state to prosecute those who by virtue of their religious faith, entered into a plural relationship. Utah however did not prosecute people who simply lived together. While other states have similar laws, those laws are rarely, if ever...
  8. Oldpolyman

    How do you have time to be poly?

    Two words, Time Management, lol. When L and H lived with me it wasn't too hard, i spent time with each woman after work and at night on a rotating basis. When wife M joined our little clan things got more complex. A lot was happening, wife L had passed and wife H was sick, eventually after H...
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    Fun sex / Safe sex

    Fun / safe Sex Since my wives have generally recruited their best friends as potential wives, they pretty much know their sexual history, but our path has been no unprotected sex of any kind until testing returns an all clear. We often required testing twice, once when they expressed...
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    Horrific Story in the NY Times

    Exactly. This is why many in the non-religious polygamy community prefer to identify as polyamous, since the general public perceives that we're somehow part and parcel with the FLDS and Warren Jeffs. >
  11. Oldpolyman

    Hello Kevin, It's nice to see someone we recognise, btw whatever happened to the percs group...

    Hello Kevin, It's nice to see someone we recognise, btw whatever happened to the percs group? Happy Holidays to you and yours. Hugs
  12. Oldpolyman

    What Do You Tell People?

    What we tell ppl Generally we're out to almost everyone, and it gets easier every time you come out, but it was not always so. For a very long time we were aunts and uncle to our children, and only a few of our friends were in the know. When we decided to out ourselves, most of our blood...
  13. Oldpolyman

    Your Most Ideal Way To Meet Someone and/or Fall In Love

    The ideal way My wives introduced me to other women that they chose. A few that they chose were cool to the idea of sharing, a couple of others didn't work out at all, but the ladies picked well generally. J and M have talked about adding another woman to our family, but while I'm sure they...
  14. Oldpolyman

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    2 good links http://www.godrules.net/articles/polygamy.htm http://www.blainerobison.com/concerns/polygamy.htm Both links are excellent and scholarly. I often direct seeking Christians to them.
  15. Oldpolyman

    Personal Summaries

    Our Traditional PolyFamily Hi, New on here but not to polyamory, we call ourselves traditional because we identify as Non-Religious, Non-Monogamous, Adult, Polygamists. Our story, 34 years ago my 1st wife, L offered to share me with her best friend, after H told her that there weren't very...
  16. Oldpolyman

    On being disabled, sexuality, and becoming poly.

    Sounds like my wives before I married them What an awesome thread! When my 1st wife and I married, I knew that she was blind, but that never mattered any to me, I've learned to look past the disability and see the real person. When she brought her best friend into our family, I loved her too...
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