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@bluebird Fixed!

How is the non-sexual intimacy and affection in your relationship? Are your needs being met in that department?

I agree with what @GalaGirl said. At this point it is on him, not you. It also sounds like he is not so great at splitting his attention. Perhaps that is something that can be worked on.

@Maygen Will do!

I was bored and I am actually curious about the results so I made my own quiz based off of the one in the other thread. Its done with Google so everyone can see the responses and it can be easy to change if you guys have suggestions...

I was bored and I am actually curious about the results so I made my own quiz based off of this one. Its done with Google so everyone can see the responses and it can be easy to change if you guys have suggestions...

Talk to him. Tell him how you feel and that you feel he did not respect your boundaries. If he gets mad when you talk about your feelings, that seems like a red flag to me.

This is particularly problematic tho. You cannot really infer anything from what you are able to provide. For example some people live with people whom are not family nor whom they are in a relationship with. It would provide you more info if you asked, "How many people are in your household?"...

Also, there is no trans*/GQ or other option for gender-- "prefer not to answer" is not the same as neither male nor female.

He doesn't seem to be okay with it- in fact that's what they fought about- that's why I found it an odd situation. The manipulative aspect was an interpretation that came more from my interaction with her than the situation itself... I would like to try and get to know her but our initial...

You're right. I need to set boundaries for myself and my emotions. No kissing/affection should help that. I saw him again tonight. And things went fine- polite & friendly and not awkward! His gf was very quite and didn't talk to anyone so that was a bit odd but whatever.

Yeah, that may be best. I guess what I find confusing/frustrating about the situation is that 1) She has a girlfriend person and 2) he acts like things may happen between us...

So I know that this is not a kink-poly board but as my question is more relationship based I thought I would give it a shot. So I met this guy, Dan, thru the local kick community. We started talking online and were flirting and getting to know each other. Around the same time he also met the...

Thank you for the feedback everyone it is really appreciated. You gave me a lot to think about. I talked with her and I think I have a better idea of her feelings now.

Hi me and my partner Elizabeth are relatively new to polly. She has had crushes, but has yet to meet someone. I on the other hand have been seeing this guy Ian for about a month. This has been fine. Elizabeth doesn't want details -- just a "I went out with X and had fun"... So that has been...

So I talked to her tonight >Are you getting enough reassurance and emotional support from me?" She said yes >Does that mean you are willing for me to keep dating Ian and see where it goes? She said yes, and that she would just like a "I going to see who/when" and a "I had a good time -...

Thank you all! You have given me some things to think about. I will try to talk to her again. @Inyourendo I know there is something wrong because when I ask a question ex: "Are you okay with being in a poly relationship?", she tells me "I do not want to talk about this, please leave" and...

Hello, Me and my partner Elizabeth have been together for 3 years. We have been in an open/poly relationship for the past 10 months, although we began talking about opening our relationship before then. Since we opened our relationship, Elizabeth has had about 4 or 5 different crushes, but...