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I agree with the others. Sharing minimal details can be good enough. Blue and I use to practice KTP prior to our last breakup. That was my preferred style in theory. But in practice, I found it to be way too chaotic. Too much drama. Partly that was Blue's hinge skills (which have improved...

When you read the posts about everyone going everywhere and doing every thing, maybe it helps to remember this is why the US is leading the world in total deaths?! Our governor dropped our mask mandate already even though only 1/4 of adults in the state have been vaccinated. It's very...

I think my aversion comes from past experience with my partner, Blue. His hinge skills have improved but he definitely still has work to do! About half of his partners during our time together, have been more monogamish and tend to make restrictive rules that affect our relationship (such as no...

Honestly, I feel the same way as your partner's wife. I don't want people I'm not involved with having sex in my bed. I don't currently live with either of my partners, but my solution would be to have my own room. Barring that, a guest room works. If meta didn't allow sex in the house, that...

Therapy is a good option. Have you considered it for yourself, too? It's been a really stressful year for everyone. Also, I think acceptance on your part that you do have different needs and perceptions of what alone time entails. He may never understand your needs but as long as he...

That's awesome, Bluebird! I would love to have a kitty Cafe. We have one in my town and it's one of my favorite places here :)

That's great news! It's much easier, imo, to maintain a relationship on socially distanced dates and video chats when there's an end in site!

That's great news, Petunia! I'm with you on the weight loss for a wedding. My oldest, Ruby, is getting married this fall. I want to lose at least 15 lbs before the wedding.

Thank you!

My state is currently vaccinating age 50 and up. I'm expecting it will open to my age range in the next 3 weeks. Not because the state is doing particularly great at vaccinating. Just because my republican governor is determined to make it look that way. 🤬 The state actually opened it to are 65...

Congratulations, Evie. That's really awesome :)

I'm really sorry, Elle. The situation with TED and Sarge's son sounded unbearable. It seems you did the best thing for your well-being. I hope that the new year brings you peace and light.

You've created a beautiful vacation home, Petunia. I am within a 12 hour drive and would absolutely consider vacationing here except I usually go south. I'll keep it in mind though :)

That was a beautiful tribute, Evie. I'm so sorry he's gone.

I'm so sorry, Evie. Wishing you peace and healing.

Definitely don't ask for details. Also, why was it ok for her to meet some random guy but NOT ok for you to meet your gf?? How is one less risky than the other? Honestly, it sounds to me like your wife wants to do what she wants to do but also wants you to do what SHE wants you to do. I would...

I agree with what icesong said. I personally don't use dating apps because I find them tedious. End result is that I date less frequently, but TBH, I prefer it that way. My partner, Blue, uses multiple dating apps. He moves them to messenger or text quickly. He never meets most of those...

I am so sorry, Atlantis. I'm sorry Mr Green is gone way too soon. And I'm sorry that you're left to grieve alone. And I'm sorry about Prof, too. And the fires and evacuations. So many horrible things about this year. Sending positive thoughts that next year will be a happier, healing, safer...

My middle kid has been doing this but is so far, unsuccessful. Congrats on getting one!

Both of my sons play chess online. They both started in chess clubs in elementary school. Ironically, I am the one who bought my oldest son his first chessboard in kindergarten, and taught him to play. By the end of his first grade year, I stopped being able to beat him, lol. I didn't even try...