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I thought I remembered reading that you guys were gonna move to BC... is that on hold or something?

The "sex object" thing for me was, I think, a subconscious desire to avoid intimacy. Why? Because I didn't feel worthy. There are many facets of the person I am, that I have really struggled with accepting. Things I really used to hate! I didn't really value myself highly. So, being scared...

I agree with this River, and I'm already letting it in.

Closer to the second ~OR~, River. When I met my (now ex) wife, I realized that a deep emotional bond is what I really had being needing in my relationships with women; and having this emotional intimacy really fueled our sexual connection, which was the most intense in my life so far...

*raises hand* Alaska is probably too huge for a big social network to really work anyhow, even if you had time. Anyhow, I'm in Homer. And it's Ariakas' fault.

This person does. Actually my bed has been receiving an unhealthy dose of pure sleep for a long time now! K no more hijack for me! *slaps wrist*

Duh, beds are for beddings! :)

Man, I used to be one of these pathetic types, when I was a young guy, and I just cringe when I look back on those days now. For me it came down to just plain not valuing women for much except sex, and feeling justified somehow in deceiving them about my feelings and intentions to get it. But...

There is a polygamy law that might apply to your situation in BC? Wtf!?!

Your words are helpful, and I agree with everything you've said. About being considerate and communicative, about the internalized homophobia, about figuring out whether I can have a healthy relationship with a man, and not carrying the experiment too far if it doesn't seem to be happening. My...

Wow. What a situation. As I read the posts, frequently I think how courageous people are to open up about some of the most intimate, often painful and embarrassing things about their lives and themselves, even in the fairly anonymous context of this forum. How much more courage does it take...

I'm really glad you started this thread, River. I've been doing a lot of thinking about my (mostly theoretical) bisexuality lately, and this seems like a good place to express and work through what's in my head, and get feedback. From a very young age I was attracted to girls; I remember...

Cut yourself some slack, P2! You've been working really hard at this. But there are three people involved, trying to do something absurdly difficult, that even people with experience in this lifestyle often can't pull off. Really I think you all deserve kudos for hanging in there at all; it...

I'd tend to agree with the band-aid post, except for one thing... Reading the rest of this thread, there have already been times where one or more of you three have been fed up and called a halt to it all. A couple days later, its all back on track. You sure were spot-on calling this "The...

This sounds really great! I bet it will really help you get what you need when these panic attacks happen. Glad to hear there's some progress going on, even if its still very difficult. Anotherbo :)

Awesome! So glad you two came to such a positive resolution with this. Anotherbo :)

Wow, it's awesome to hear things are going so well! I just started reading this thread, and the early posts were so gut-wrenching, it seemed like a big crash-and-burn was coming fast. It keeps amazing me, the incredible ups and downs experienced by the people posting on this board! It's...

I'm sorry you're going through this, Foxflame. It sounds like he's been very disrespectful of you. If this is his version of poly, how could a partner feel cared about and cherished? Hang in there! Anotherbo :(

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This is so good to hear! Anotherbo :D