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Kind of regretting moving away from San Francisco now :P Keep us in touch, I'll be interested to see the final product.

How important was the asexual aspect of the survey? One of my partners is asexual, but he is not the partner I have been with the longest, so most of the questions I answered did not relate to him. I also don't believe it asked about his other partners (although I took the survey a while ago and...

I agree that I couldn't figure out what the difference between French kissing and making out was supposed to be. I have always considered the two to be pretty much synonymous. I guess making out can mean French kissing while also groping each other? But French kissing is a kind of making out...

I too was unsure about the same questions. For the cohabitation question, I have a rotating schedule and spend some days at one house and some days at the other (two of my three partners live together). I ended up saying I only lived with the one I live the most days with, but I hesitated a lot...

For people who don't want to click links: "demisexual" is called that because it's considered to be halfway between asexual and allosexual (allosexual means, well, the opposite of asexual). Someone who is demisexual does not experience sexual attraction for strangers or random people or, indeed...

I've seen Pegasus for male unicorns. I'm not sure they're that rare though. I know a triad of 3 bi poly men, and I'm part of a triad with another two... But that's anecdotal evidence I guess.

Jealousy?

I didn't get that email, but I logged in OKCupid the other day and had a notification that my husband had added me as his wife. I confirmed it, then got very enthusiastic and went to check how to add my other partners... impossible without deleting my relationship with him. I'm currently his...

My metamour is now also my boyfriend :D So, in a relationship with two non-hetero men (and an hetero one).

Since I haven't updated in over a year, I'm past due! Chris and I broke up (Chris being the guy I was with a year ago), polyamory wasn't for him and we were ultimately too different in other ways as well. We're still friends and a few months ago he met someone and they're in a happy monogamous...

"I'm 27 and 5'11. I can email you my pic (Windows 7 won't let me upload it). I have my own place. I don't know if you think I'm too young. You're just stunning."

Count me in as someone who doesn't feel a drop after overnights with my boyfriend. However we see each other regularly and I chat with him after I get home (not right away, but the same day) so there isn't really a "when will I see you again?" aspect to it. I do miss my husband when I'm having...

Yes! I'm so lucky and happy and blissed :D I guess some people get all the luck!

One of my partners is a bi guy, and my metamour is also a bi guy.

I think that's why they have a "comments" box for you to fill. If you just stop answering, they won't know you exist. If you fill the survey, skip questions that are unanswerable, if any (I don't have a hierarchical relationship, but my answer to pretty much all the questions would be the same...

No capitals, wrong spelling, and help him what? Oh, and he's not from my area, not even my country.

It would be nice if the majority of men did not answer. But the majority of men do answer. It ranges from "I think it would work out, come on, give me a chance!" to "You ugly bitch nobody would want anything to do with you anyways" but the guys who don't answer at all are definitely in the...

There are also people who disable the website when they're not looking and re-enable it when they are... but they are people who just leave it there and don't think about it, thinking the inactivity itself will be enough. So the age of a profile doesn't mean they've been looking the whole time...

Well, obviously you can't know for sure, but you can base it on whether they were enthusiastic or initiated anything, for instance. Someone who feels pressured may go through the motions but they're unlikely to be the one suggesting it, and they may be reluctant, hoping that you get the message...

I guess saliva and semen didn't count as disgusting body fluids, then?