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    Looking for Interviews with Polyamorous Women

    Why only women? Will you let me participate if I wear a dress? And I still don't understand why no Canadians. Isn't Canada actually our largest state? (I realize I'm asking for a beating here, but since Mono has agreed to take em for me, I don't mind so much!) ;) Ok, smartass mode *off*...
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    Greetings from two English ladies!

    Welcome, from the other side of the pond (and then some)!
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    Newsletter - National Coalition of Sexual Freedom

    Hmm that link is giving me a blank page...
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    Coping with a slow breakdown-suggestions?

    My advice for him (not you Sage) follows: Relax, let her be. Be strong and happy with your life, with or without her. Be content that you have value, that she has been lucky to be with you. You've chased her enough; time for her to chase you. Calmly accept that she might not. If that...
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    Finding Balance

    Thanks F-Uni. And the artist formerly known as Ygirl (see what I did there NK?) sent a link www.snopes.com/fraud/advancefee/nigeria.asp. Now I know what the Nigeria thing was about, it's a scam! For the record, I didn't scam anybody, not even the US gov't who sent me the money. But this scam...
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    Finding Balance

    Rofl
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    Finding Balance

    That may be the strangest question I've ever heard. The short answer is no. The long answer is also no. Can I still call you Ygirl?
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    Finding Balance

    My story is too complex for chronology; thus I will start in the middle. Late last night, I found $8,880. My most active checking account has been scraping the floorboards. This last year, I've had next to no income, nearly got evicted for non-payment of my paltry rent, and have survived...
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    Alaska

    Cheap places to stay... winter rates are definitely cheaper here, and sometimes a place will run a weekend special, I'll keep my eye out. The cheapest place to stay would be with me, but I won't have it really ready for visitors for another couple months I expect. It's also just a 2-room...
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    Alaska

    Atz Kilcher, yeah. He's Jewel's dad, and when I first got to Homer I lived at his sister Mossy's farm. Most of that family is pretty strange. I don't know him personally, nor have I seen him on stage, but I'll find out if he's performing locally much these days. Running off to watch some...
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    Alaska

    There is a good live-music scene in Homer. There is a strong artistic community as well, usually a couple shows open the first Friday of any given month. I really enjoy Karaoke, myself. That happens on weekdays and every other Friday. Any of that sound appealing? Otherwise, my winters are...
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    Alaska

    This sounds like a great way to be! I'd love to meet you guys sometime. Do you ever come to Homer? I end up in the Anchorage area now and then, but it's usually spur-of-the-moment, whenever a few good reasons to be there coincide.
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    Gay, Bi-, Queer Poly Men Gather & Chat Here

    I'd love to hear more about the exceptions. And anything going on in your life, relationship-wise.
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    Gay, Bi-, Queer Poly Men Gather & Chat Here

    Lol Magdlyn, you make me laugh. :) Thanks for excluding us... but personally I'm still dishing out lots of lame guy crap myself! Part of it is having been so isolated socially... its not just my sex skills that are rusty! I need some WD-40 to grease my social interactions too. Male/female...
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    Gay, Bi-, Queer Poly Men Gather & Chat Here

    Well, its only two times I've been approached that I didn't feel an uncomfortable vibe, Raze. Both of those times I let it happen, but the sexual contact wasn't too great. I get what you're saying about quick sex vs. holding off a bit. Generally I'm trying to go slower now, as I'm really...
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    Redpepper's journey

    This thread is one of my favorites. I read it all the time, although I seldom post here because... I often can't think of anything useful or interesting to say about your journey. And I still can't! So I'm just posting to say, I'm glad your NS boyfriend and you seem to be back on track, and I...
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    How to turn a mono relationship into a poly relationship or friendship?

    That seems like a really healthy development to me. Kudos! P.S. Um, my signature was a joke from another thread that sounds really weird to me in other contexts... just realized it's time to delete it!
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    I am Mr. Ed.

    Sweet, glad to see you here! I'm always interested in what Formerunicorn has to say about her life, it would be awesome to get some of your perspective too.
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    Gay, Bi-, Queer Poly Men Gather & Chat Here

    Actually no. There used to be a big disconnect in my head between wanting men in the general sense, and wanting any one specific guy. Also practically all of my male friends have been more like activity partners than people who I felt close to. The only times (before just recently) that I had...
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    Alaska

    What Mohegan said. Is the move still likely to happen soonish then?
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