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Thanks for reaching out:-) How is your situation different? Are you the primary in the relationship? Are you in a triad? Are you a public couple? That's the thing that I'm most concerned about. However, we have been in public many times since I started that thread as a group and one on one as...

Happy Birthday Annabel:-) Just wanted to de-lurk to give you good wishes.

Wow! Look at all this action. I went on vacation for a week. We had some family time throughout (man and oso's). Malfunktions, I don't see mono equating with jealousy. I like having one partner because I like doting on one person. Although, this relationship has helped me to see how someone...

Oh JaneQ, I know what you mean about the library. We had someone come over to play the other day and he pulled a book from my shelf. I got really jumpy. Lol:-)

What was your path?

Hi SC, what I mean is that I am erasing my lines. I'm not talking basic principles here. I'm talking assumptions that I've made about life that were un-tested. I am exploring. I am playing with my edges. I go through this process to challenge my beliefs. I play with them. I question them. But I...

Thanks SC. Last month I had no idea I would be in this position today. My response to poly was "no way". However, I value my growth and expansion. This journey has been a FANTASTIC way to erase my boundaries and step into my life in a bigger way. For no other reason, I want to continue because I...

Thank you for all of your support here. You have been awesome! We had a chat. We are taking it as it comes. I've already told my best friend. I needed to have someone to talk to. I'm going to a music festival this weekend where I'll probably mention it to the friends that'll be there. I feel as...

So, I'm moving from under consideration to in training as a sub. It's an opportunity to evaluate where we are and see how we want to proceed. My only issues are around the poly part of things. He wants to know what I need in order to make the relationship work. My first thoughts are openness...

SC, your post asks all the questions milling about in my head. The social circle issue is still out on the table. I'm not satisfied being his dirty little secret, or being seen as some outside woman. However, we are in the first month of the relationship. For now, we all hang out together...

Anna, thank you so much for chronicling your journey here so thoroughly. I read all 72 pages! I recently started a D/s poly relationship. It's my first poly experience. I never thought I would do this. I'm a secondary and I'm a sub. I fell hard in just 1 month. Actually after the first...

Evad, I'm in. I want to explore this. I'm just trying to figure out how to integrate it and how I am going to integrate with him (many conversations on that to come). Kevin, thank you SO much. The first step for all of us would be just coming ou individually. I'm not interested in having...

That would be simple if we were in a poly world. None of us are ready to be introduced that way. He isn't "out" to his friends. She wants to get married and in some conversations we've had has mentioned that this is just sex. And I am brand new to ALL of this. So, is there a step before the...

Loving Radiance, my first question would be, how do I introduce him in my world? I want to introduce him as we are seeing each other. I want to be able to hang out with him. I want him to know my friends and I want them to know him. How do I introduce him in a way that honors our relationship...

Hmmm, where to begin? I've spent the past week reading through posts on the site, specifically Mono's success in poly thread. I find myself in a poly relationship. I'm very mono. I had no idea how mono I was until I started down this road. About a month ago I started a relationship with a...