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I'm a red headed white female. My husband is white and my boyfriend is black. Our local poly community appears to be made up of 99% while people. I am not saying it's right or wrong of a person to chose not to sleep with a person of another race, but at least with Swingers the relationship is...

By the time the storm hit upstate NY it had tamed alot. Our lights flickered but didn't go out, but there were spotty power outages. Thankfully our maintenance guy trimmed the branches on all the trees on our property a few weeks ago, so we didn't have any danger of them falling on us. Our...

Poly can and does work within a BDSM framework. There are a couple fetlife poly groups you can look into. But I would caution you that not everyone kinky is looking for a loving relationship.

Hi, thought I would chime in as an employment counselor for the developmentally disabled. I am sorry that you felt marginalized by Boring Guys's comment. I personally did not find it ableist, but I respect your right to feel what you feel. I think the problem here is that instead of owning your...

Runic Wolf and I are out to most of our friends about being poly, but only out to a select few about who I am seeing. We are not out on social media (or rather I am not) or to family due to my job's morality clause. My boyfriend, Wendigo, and I agreed in the beginning that we needed to keep...

The improper use of "to" instead of "too" bugs me. Lol. As for my most recent message "Are you looking for a sugar daddy?" He went on to say that he was clean and safe and gave his phone number.

Earlier this year, my secondary (though we don't use those terms), Wendigo, felt that he and I needed to take a break from our relationship out of the blue. At the time, he wasn't sure if it would be temporary or permanent. He was afraid he was neglecting his friendship with my husband, Runic...

I am sorry for your loss. *hugs* We had to put my husband'"s cat to sleep in the middle of grieving the death of my father-in-law. It was hard, but his kidneys went into failure as a result of him contracting FIV from a fight with a stray. He was a old kitty - 16 or 17 when he died and we still...

Welcome. Try looking for poly meet ups near your area. You might be surprised. But unless you are looking for no emotions attached sex, a swingers club is probably not the place for you to make connections. I have read too many sob stories where one or both members of a couple fell in love with...

Runic Wolf and I started as FWB in high school. I was his first, but he was not mine. We started officially dating a couple months later and got engaged 6 months after that when he came cack from basic training. We were engaged for 1 year and 10 months before we got married. The first year and...

I am assuming those weekends are the school field trips she talks about. I know when Runic Wolf was in school one of his courses required 30 hours a week in the lab and it was only going to get worse if he stayed in school.

No worries. I haven't been to your offsite blog in a while. Guess I should.

Started the week off on a bad note with multiple days worth of migraines, but I'm ending it on a pretty good one. Last night while Runic Wolf was off on his date, Wendigo and I had a stay in date. His wife went out of town on a school trip with their son this morning, so he had planned on...

Did you take down your post about GG because I don't see any of your posts in the last few days with the tag "Boyfriend" or were you talking about your other blog? Maybe he read it because the tag wasn't there?

Honestly, if it's in your profile, than it's fair game. At least in my opinion.

lol. Another guy today messaged me to tell me he wants to be my next lover. I'm not even listed as available on OK Cupid.

Got this one today: "you into/ up for a gang bang?"

The crazy thing about it, is that I'm the oldest. My grandmother forced my parents to stop seeing each other by my first birthday and arranged for my mom to marry her best friend's son instead of my dad. Their marriage was 31 years overdue. Even my step dad and his new girlfriend were for it. My...

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"Hey whats going on? I'm <Name Redacted>, I just graduated from RIT with an Engineering Degree. I am looking for someone open minded and cool. This might sound different but I like women's feet and would like to give you a foot massage haha. If your cool with that we should talk more." I...