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    Amazing romantic r/s with my bf but we just don't seem to be sexually compatible

    Maybe they have it private... But if the ladies haven't shared PIV hurts the first time... Maybe even the second.. And then at times when it gets too crazy.. Lol But yeah... It's common, for the many reasons about to be spelled out by some.. we are all young and ign once or more, if you're...
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    Unreasonable to seek the truth?

    Sucky place! Really.. You're better of looking at it from the " we did Divorce" and have a chance to start over! Would you do it again.. Now that you know the truth!? No one is perfect.. No. It's better to start clean! Fresh and so clean .. But She's probably in deep NRE... And would suck to...
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    Is it fair to compare these situations?

    No comparison! As you said! She's not breaking the Rule either! Get over it.. Both of you. As explained above by the wonderful folk, bad rule. Whether you're both there or not... It's a crappy rule. It only shows where you both are in your growth. But it's the truth. Hopefully you guys can...
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    Amazing romantic r/s with my bf but we just don't seem to be sexually compatible

    View from the coaches perspective, an Old coach, pass on information for best results, be there for the good and bad, but ... You can't play The game for him! Let him do his thing ... Give the freedom and the help... When asked! It should hopefully grow both of you
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    So far....So blessed

    Welcome! To our Forum! Nice to read your intro.
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    Trying Something New

    Welcome! To our Forum! Let loose... Enjoy the place.... Just make it better then you found it! ;)
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    Amazing romantic r/s with my bf but we just don't seem to be sexually compatible

    Welcome! Welcome, Pixy! Young you are!... And your boyfriend's frustrations... Nothing to gloss over! If you don't want to try psex with him, that's a fine thing to know for you, if you don't want to Don't! However, Let him find.. Help him find someone that will be happy to relieve that...
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    Privacy after violation of trust?

    Humm Well, what he is asking for is codependency... Or working towards it or worse! What you need is to stand your ground... Be you! Free you! Have him Except you ... For everything you are and be what you do/did. Through direct actions of yours or independent of him... It will take time...
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    So It Ended and I feel so Numb

    Yeah It sucks! Very immature of the meta. That's not on you Feel better soon... I think you'll work through it in a great way
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    So It Ended and I feel so Numb

    Sorry about your breakup! Work through your feelings... Lean on anything and everything that supports you. You having that experience with your past.... You do have an unique view.... Tough spot. She, your x meta,, needs help.. Therapy And you can't fix that for her.. you can't make her...
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    Poly and Potential Positive Partners

    Yup!! Tough choice blue... It can be done... With lots of caution! Good luck
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    Privacy after violation of trust?

    Hi Maybe it's just his way of communicating that isn't very effective with you? He may just need to change the delivery style... Like instead of " what are you doing".. He can just say..." Hopefully you're having an awesome day". Considering that everything shared here is one sided... You seem...
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    As Before, Looking for People Who Have Successfully Coped with Circumstance

    Take it as you like or feel... The feels don't pay the bills unless you're n Arhtist You want it with feelings or you want just feelings?? Wisdom is without emotion! So, your meta is a selfish Hippocratical Bitch!! She wants her two guys for just her... And thinks she can change the agreed...
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    anybody out there? Help! stuffs going haywire!

    Awesome Good thing you checked again.. Back into your thread.. that's great! Some people never do!
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    My new road.

    Welcome! Welcome to the Forum!
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    Relationship Dialectics

    Welcome! This is the place!! So, Welcome to the Forum!
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    2 male 1 woman triad questions

    Yup!! As common as it gets!! Considering the poly subject only! Not all stiles of relating ;) If you think that's different .. Do share
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    How to handle different sex drives

    A year into it! I'd say move on! This is something that should have been taken into consideration long ago.. And hashed out.. 1. I need about this much sex. What can we do 2. I need about this much time. What can we do 3. How is your sex drive in general?( Girlfriends of course) 4. How much...
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    Excited to be here!

    Welcome! Welcome to the Forum!
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    2 male 1 woman triad questions

    Welcome! Welcome to our Forum! There's an introductions thread..fyi Have you tried being honest and open in some dating sites? How about here in this thread, http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=13? Kudos for knowing, kinda, what you're looking for.... But yeah... usually what...
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