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Welcome! Welcome to the Forum! You'll be glad you found us.. Lol

Humm Scared of what? Feelings don't pay the bills... Unless you're an artist!? Usually. So, while feelings have their place... Sometimes it's better to just cool... Let time pass till you know you can effectively communicate feelings and direction. And take it easy on both of you! Really...

Quite the stretch Hopefully just seeing the girls is soothing for you... Making sure they are ok

How long have you been married? How long have you been in the girls life?

Are they your daughters? Just for clarity! Curious

Yours work for me Kevin! It's a start The only thing I have issue with is the " can't be closeted" It's just me..I have reasons.. I'm private..I don't give anyone the right to share my personal info! It's just the way I was brought up! The poly part doesn't matter... It's just the privacy...

This is still the trying for info to eventually arrive at a hopeful definition!.? I like most of your attempts at it Kdt! To me it's still just the finding direction process. I'm one of those that will distinguish between good poly and bad attempts at it! And just the plain simple fact that...

If she moved out already Keep it that way! Work on getting over it and then in that time Work on you! Work on your character for you, spiritually for you, physically for you! When you are comfy with what you need then.. It will eventually come to you.. You will instinctively know how, when...

Marriage isn't Corrupt! And society as a whole doesn't corrupt it either! It maybe that individually you can't see or understand it to your benefit and the benefit of other's... That's individually! I call what Bluebird and other wonderful people here have for arrangements... Marriage! And...

Lol No kidding

Speaking for yourself only! For the most part.. Yes it does help define poly.

Follow your path Sounds like that's exactly what you need! Hopefully it works your way.. Hopefully they are strong enough individually to respond to your needs ... And not selfishly Just think about them if they care for you as they should

Nah! Start with basics... Do you have each other's ice stuff.. can you get ahold of each other directly in such cases? At some level we are all a bit turned off by rejection... I just see it as a sign ... Do I need to be more determined Do I need to change my tactic What does it take to...

Well, Kvb You can talk and interact socially with whom ever you want! And it's not up to your husband to tell you .. You can or can't talk to them... That's between you and them directly! From any perspective if you didn't sign anything saying otherwise. If you reach out on your own... That...

Humm why haven't you connected with your metamour's SO? Nothing wrong with talking to the guy!? Did he not want to talk to you?

Don't be too down on yourself, Kevin Non of us are perfect!! Glad your ok Glad your here

Hi Have fun! What do you do without him that is just fun?... Do that. Live your life! Do everything that you enjoy.... Go dancing with you child. Go out somewhere fun for your child if you can. Play games...board or video!! Go to a movie, museum, park, eat tasty, eat crazy new! Take a...

Welcome! Hows Don!? Welcome to the Forum. Good place to find your way in poly or non-mono

Lizzie You have to do what's better for you and your child! It sucks to have you tell him... But it's his doing! And you have your wants and likes too. How are you today, Liz?

Humm If you're patient and wait for him to take the lead, might be a bit of waiting, let him start how he wants and with what he knows gets him going!? Tight spot for sure.... But There's absolutely nothing wrong with telling him that Porn isn't helping in this situation... So, if he needs to...