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    Is this Unreasonable?

    Humm If you've only know each other two months! Wow! Tell him to relax... You guys have time to enjoy actually knowing each other first. Just be supportive of the fact he shared... It's awesome he wants kids! Now any lady he wants to have kids with... Well he may need to know the prospective...
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    New - Excited, scared, jealous, confused

    Yeah.. Great place to let it out for sure Read up...relax and enjoy the place! It's an awesome resource. Jealousy is a " bitch" of a feeling if you don't know how to deal with it! Have you and your lady visited a therapist or counselor together or individually? It's a good practice if easily...
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    New - Excited, scared, jealous, confused

    Hi Welcome to the Forum! Well Joe.. You could spend sometime finding a distraction for that day Find a new date on line or whenever Spend time with a friend of yours Spend that time with one of your threesome/foursome lady's if available... Have your girlfriend wait till you do find a proper...
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    Is this Unreasonable?

    Humm Start with concrete opinion from you: Do you think he has the financial freedom to raise a kid? Would he be up for a full time dad post from day one? He has the right any of us do for wanting children.. Yes. So, if you're ok with him finding that person he could procreate with..... Then...
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    Advice please - becoming poly out of boredom/depression?

    Welcome! To the Forum! Your SO needs assistance.... And if he turns it down.. You may have to turn him out the door! ... Take your time here... Ready up by reading/sharing here. And see what you want and need for you
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    What are you listening to now?

    https://youtu.be/iNPQx_Bb2Fo
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    Struggling with my relationship of 12 years

    Hi Tight spot you're in! I would say... Lay it out on the table how you want things! And if your SO can't do it.... It would be best to part ways. Let him figure out life on his own... You're almost bankrolling his behavior.. Stop! It's time for a reset! Just hit it! Wether you kick him out...
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    "Hoping to be" New Here

    Welcome! Welcome to the Forum! Nice to meet you!
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    New here

    Welcome! To the Forum! I think you are going to like it here..
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    Mono People but In Some Sort of Poly-ish Beginning Situation?

    I second the above motion Ravenscroft .. Has great advice! Just get/let the ladies to relax... And let them get used to themselves and you..too
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    Thanks for letting me join you

    Hi Yeah... Be strong woman...Age difference only matters if you let it, or if your still stuck in the 50's remember that!!? JK JK of course.. I've always thought I was decently good loving and always worked out/ stayed in shape for my hobbies. I've always dated without much regard to age...
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    Personal Summaries

    Welcome! Welcome and post away! For direct experience and help....AL99 and Shaya are Mono's that could probably quickly give you advice if you ask them.
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    Confusion and Jealousy Amongst the Triad

    Bigger bed! Or add space to the bed.. However!? I've had this issue before! Browny points for creativity.... We added an air mattress..it fit perfectly in the space available next to the bed... Way more space!! Leave the other room for when one wants/needs privacy and don't be hurt that one is...
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    What are you drinking right now?

    Water Lots of water! Will switch to a great iced tea soon.. Hopefully
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    When can you trust that it is love and not NRE?

    It's true! This is a fact I've known my adult life.... It's how life test a relationship! Just is... Makes everything taste better, more colourful... And just so it's said.... It's not that same as basic bulll drama either.. So, folks, do try and differentiate the difference in mind first..
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    Brand spankin new.. Happy and Overwhelmed

    Welcome to the Forum! Enjoy your NRE! While trying to keep it healthy too. If he's creating jealousy at home... Sounds like he maybe not giving someone else their allotted time!? But that's his problem. Just remember to try and keep it balanced for you! Especially if there is the " horrendous"...
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    2200road

    Hi Matt If you are worried in that way about her Safety and she doesn't.,.. There is reason for that? Think about it.... 1. She knows them well enough and long enough.. They are safe! 2. She has a plan for her safety if it's the first meet... Remember she met many people before she met...
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    Newbie questions

    Oy! Oy vay!! Lol
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    Newbie questions

    Hi Go back through all the post in your thread... Read them! With study and Enough time..... It will be clear. Glad you're here! Toodles
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    Newbie questions

    Nah! It's a process... That has been explained by others! They have shared with you plenty great experience... How you're taking it only shows where you are in the process. Enjoy the Forum!
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