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Hi! I have written and deleted (and edited) this post 3-4 times now, as I realise I am a rambler. So here is the attempted short(er) version. One year ago today, my partner of almost 13 years asked our best friend to be her boyfriend. Today they celebrated their one year anniversary, and life...

Hi.... I wanted to take a few minutes to share what is going on these days. For those who "know" me from the board, it's easy to see that I have flailed and battled myself for a while. Good news is, I think I am winning. After soon 13 amazing pedestal-years with my partner, she came out as...

No, seriously, we did. This is officially a how-do-you-do-it? poll on behalf of myself. A quick recap of setting and timeline: My partner (I'll call her Vanilla) came out to me as polyamorous 4 weeks ago. She has a full set of intense feelings for a close friend of ours. He has reciprocated. 2...

I took a giant leap of faith this morning, trusting myself for the first time in my life. Last night, Vanilla and I had a friend over and we talked a lot about the situation with him. He is very monogamous, like me, and in a way, argued my case to Vanilla. I think this really helped her open up...

Another plan ended completely different than I hoped today... Today my partner's boyfriend picked her up at noon and they went back to his place. I was going to go to his place at seven, spend some quality time with both of them and then have a romantic dinner with my partner. I was planning...

Hello everyone, I am now on the third day of my new life, after my partner (Vanilla) told me 2-3 weeks ago she was polyamorous, and loved one of my best friends (Jake). Thursday, all three of us sat down and talked about what we want, need, etc., and we decided to give this a go. Now, I use...

Hello! This is a weird thing for me to do, but then again, so is life these days. I am a hypersensitive mono, almost 36, who has been (is in!) an extremely good and safe relationship with my partner (Vanilla) for about 13 years. We have no kids, and no interest in having any. She started...