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After having watched it, the poly thing wasn't even worked on for her, she seems more like a person whose issues transcend her partnerships. Originally it was packaged/presented as her issues were 'from' being poly, but I've known monogamous people who had the exact same issues she does. Also...

So apparently there's a new show on Logo featuring various sexual dysfunctions of the mental variety. One of the members of the group (This was filmed in 2011 per the info) is poly and the way the promo about her was cut her being poly was part of her dysfunction...

Thanks for the insight. It is interesting that your revelation as an actual member a 'failed' triad others were citing as an example was so different than what they were saying about your situation. I think that is a bit of where this hurts all of us in the anonymous dept. We only get to see...

Well in the words of my wife, she's 99% straight, but for OF. She's said as much to both of us. I don't feel comfortable speculating on just how it will go because to me that would be either setting myself up for disappointment or to appear controlling, and I want neither. My wife is better for...

One of my favorite character quotes: Han Solo, "Never tell me the odds." The odds on this situation existing are already at the lottery level. I've not read one single anecdotal experience that even reasonably compares. As for moving her in, it would be more disruptive not to in my opinion, and...

Sorry, I did mean to respond to this. Yes he's already been informed. My dad is a constant ass personality wise, but life view wise he's always been a live and let live type. And if he does develop any issues with it, (his problems aren't physical, more mental) then he can always live in a...

The humor I find in the outright thread jack she represents is pretty fierce. And the juxtaposition of the response to my post and the very next threat that she posted on. Eh well. It's not any worse than the bbs days, at least I never have to avoid this person in public. :cool: And yeah I...

to end the threadjack, thanks to those who have been welcoming, hopefully we'll have further useful and instructive conversations.

Can you point to the board rule that requires anyone here to conform to your idea of acceptable grammar and linguistic aptitude? I'm really starting to feel like your interaction on this thread is more about asserting your own need to talk about your relationship dysfunctions than anything to...

Please don't refer to me intimately. I do not resemble honey. Actually better yet, since you have not a single constructive thing to really say to me, other than tell me how much my life is going to suck because you know better. I'd prefer we not speak at all. I'm really surprised at how...

We'll discuss it as it happens, thought we've both already expressed in more than one pretty lengthy conversation that we wouldn't be bothered by a 2 and 1 sexual situation in our bedroom. Honestly sex tends to make me sleepy, and I have no problem seeing to my own needs and passing right out...

Thanks, I was beginning to feel I'd been tagged some sort of egocentric. I trust and love my wife. I like this new person, I've known of her and about her for a long time. This isn't about fulfilling my life for me. I get fulfillment from helping people and loving them. And as you stated, that's...

And you foolishly assume her current situation is anything better? You don't know her. You don't know us. You simply don't know what I've done for my enemies to help them much less my friends, or my wife for that matter (in regards to helping people.) We've already discussed the end game, we've...

I find it amusing that you find yourself so confident in your assertions, knowing nothing of the communication between the three of us, or comfort levels or desires. I've known people for years and not been as comfortable telling them things along these lines with such authority. I'm not a...

:o this seems a bit half finished, so I'm not sure what you mean, but if you want to elaborate feel free.

In person their relationship lasted quite some time, we are currently separated by about 1100 or so miles, so the physical has been unavailable. Cybering, skyping, there are some unusual circumstances on her end that make daily contact difficult, due to lack of regular internet. She spends time...

Hi everyone, I came to this board/forum looking for best practices regarding poly relationships. So far I'm receiving quite an education. :) My wife and myself have been married for nearly 5 years. Prior to our marriage when my wife was younger, she had a lesbian relationship that lasted about...