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Having been forced into this position on occasion, I will only say "DON'T DO IT". Drop a utility payment or something else, not the mortgage payment. I have found our utility companies fairly easy to deal with and will make payment plans with very little effort. However, if it does become...

Not about them being able to understand. Personal DETAILS are none of their f'ing business. I'll discuss facts and hypothetical situations with my kids anytime, no problem, but they don't need to know what goes on in MY bedroom.

Why the Fuck are you sharing details of your sex life with the kids? I'm thinking the kids need to be in therapy too and get over this rampant homophobia. No shit Ray is depressed, even his kids have been taught that no man has any worth unless they fit into a specific small little box. Poor...

Or is it a distrust of the testing facility's ability to follow directions? If the herpes test is done and comes back positive, then the results for the other tests are more believable. Kinda like when my mom went to have her oil changed and they gave a laundry list of stuff they checked, but...

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It's not really about offending anyone, it's more that it's not relevant to the original topic and initial post in this thread. Believe it or not, this thread will likely help someone else down the road who is struggling with a similar situation to your initial post. You can have banter on your...

Do a "tag search" on boundaries/rules etc. Sounds like you guys need to have a conversation about what each of you is okay with and not okay with. What's okay while your separated vs if you back dating again. This would be a negotiation. He probably never thought that you would do a random hook...

I would ask him WHY he's not OKAY with 2 & 3. What about them freaks him out and why one is worse than the other. I suspect some of it is just a knee-jerk reaction to being shocked and getting a flood of emotions.

Whoa! Back up, and slow down. Now is definitely the time to be thinking of children - put that on indefinite hold. Is he seeing a therapist for his depression? Is he actively looking for work? That you have been "trying" for 6 years to get him to be happier is a huge RED FLAG! That he wants...

I think that's "Manilla" :p I was wondering that same thing. I think Ray likes her "kink";), they just need to communicate better. And deal with some past issues. Which, by the way, is so worth the effort, even if it seems to take forever with a crap load of pitfalls along the way.

Yeah kitten :) I just rescued a kitten out of my back yard back in June, she is about 5-6 months old now. She had an URI and was severely dehydrated and malnourished when we found her. We had to force(syringe) feed her for about 2 weeks, I just didn't have $800 to hospitalize her and hook her...

I don't know, I heard it once and then tried the two side by side and it was pretty close - it's nearly tasteless. I imagine it depends on what mom had been eating :p. I know a few ADHD kids that coffee would have worked great, as it works to calm them down.

Cantaloupe juice! Just saying.;)

This!

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He could probably call the doctor and let them know what's going on and have them send a new prescription to a local pharmacy there in Kodiak. Good to hear :D Yeah, he's going to have to work on his freak out moments and learn to ask questions instead of ASSUMING what ever his brain came up...

Good grief, NRE whiplash :eek: Good for you! I too found out that getting on top of stuff and trying to figure out how to be independent went a long way to stemming my fear and anxiety. In my case, it turned out to not be necessary, but I'm still pursuing certain things (schooling, house...

I don't see this as "the drop of a hat" - they had only known each other less than a month. That's just dating and deciding it's not going to work.

IMHO: Nix the moving in together idea until you have spent 1-2 years physically spending time with them. IF you move, have a job lined up and your own place lined up - do not re-locate and move in with them all in one fell swoop. Red Flag - talking about moving in together when no one has met...