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Oh no, that is not what I said, I said you were not the person I directed the question to. I would really like some answers to my question that isn't first possibly coloured by what you are saying since you have a different experience than they do. So why not wait for the person whose question...

To be honest,this really will not help her jealousy issues. She thinks it will, because she will get some attention, but unless the attention is focused on her at all points and you don't spend any time being intimate with the new woman, she will get jealous! But this time the stakes will be...

I'm sorry did I miss something when you magically turned into the OP?

I'm pretty sure what the OP said afterwards is indicative some sort level of depression, or else he is a wind-up merchant (troll). I am generally a cynical person, but I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt that he isn't out to wind people up and he genuinely feels helpless. But this...

Sorry, WhatHappened, but 98% of my friends and acquaintances are not polyamorous. They just don't care, and certainly don't make any judgement on what is normal or not. Everyone is weird in some way, innit? And as you can see, I am volunteering information that is relevant, to disclose a...

Stable subplot of many a lesbian 'dramedy' I think. I last saw it in 'Lip Service'. I also recall reading complaints from Poly women who will go to Poly events, start talking to a man, things are going well until he brings over his wife and he disregard her when they find out she is straight...

"One of them's a genius the other is insane" That takes me back :)

Because I rule the world!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mwahahaha Or alternatively, I just read their profile whist they were reading a triad/Unicorn thread.

Can I just ask you why is one of you feeling left out when swinging with couples? Surely there are two of you and you get to play with two people, isn't that one person for each of you then? More chance being left out in a threesome isn't it? *confused* Anyhow, I know you spent some time...

Ah right, because earlier in the thread it appeared that you were making it a rule, I am glad to see I was mistaken. I got that. You were swingers, I addressed the difference. It seems a bit back to front doesn't it? Unless it is a 'not wanting anyone to feel left out issue'? Surely it...

You could answer mine. I am single at the moment and at home with a young baby. I am bored and looking for adult conversation. You are not taking me away from an exciting poly life. You don't have to feel guilty. . You are wrong and you are. Unless you are that creepy dude who has no social...

I don't think there is anything normal about it. If anything, I think it is oversharing, I have neve liked hearing about the romantic life of any of my partners. I never ask about it and will never ask about it. I just want to make sure that they are free to be with me ethically. That is all I...

You know, it might not be guilt-tripping, but maybe a grass is greener thing. Maybe she would love to get married and have a baby. I think because you resent the fact she has the money, you might be ascribing motivation to everything she says. There are many women out there who make good money...

And now Urban Dictionary, so... I think our definition will probably prevail. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=unicorn

That is her problem, not yours. Yes, don't get involved in their issues. You can be supportive by offering him an ear, but don't try to 'solve' his problem, and don't slate her if he is whining, just tell him to talk it out with her. Do what you want to do when he isn't there. Watch that...

No, just the opposite, really.

I'm sorry, but you must know some messed-up people. I don't see the point of either. I guess this might be some sort of cultural dissonance, since I can't imagine such a response from anyone. And again, what would the emails have to do with it, unless you are in the habit of letting other...

I am not certain I understand this. Why would you need to talk about the nature of your past relationships unless you bring it up? It has been a while since I 'dated,' but is that an appropriate question to ask people nowadays? I have to say, I am not comfortable with that. I don't ask people...

I think maybe you are having a bit of a confidence problem at the moment. (((hugs)))

There is nothing wrong with making people aware of the pitfalls. If they still want to do it, then that is their right, but I think when someone has unrealistic expectations, and that goes for all types of poly, then it is fair to point it out.