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I did not say that, I said that people have been polite on this thread because the OP is being open minded. Many, many Unicorn hunters are defensive, stubborn and closed minded. That does tend to tick people off you know. I am pretty sure that in the dark ages of internet time people were...

Sour grapes eh? That is weak, since the OP (sorry OP) is one of the very regular 'We can't find a woman to join us...why?' Posts that are so common they are now considered a Poly forum trope. People have responded far, far, FAR more politely on this thread than in other similar ones. Not...

^^^This^^^ Never, ever, ever.

Because it is thoroughly unethical.

Because no one lives in isolation, we live in society and people like.....talk to other people. Like I said, the opinions of others might not matter to you, but it might matter to those who are in a relationship with you (like Pink for example) and it might bother her. I am not saying that...

What she said ^^ I think L has a flaming cheek!

Your missing the point, which is, just because it doesn't matter to you, doesn't mean it doesn't matter.

And that would be fine, if you controlled how other people saw your marriage and marriage in general, but you don't. Marriage comes with a whole heap of societal baggage that you partake of, even if you don't want it for yourself and your marriage. You can't control how other people think and...

You're right, I am not. Of course you don't...however, often those sort of situations cause resentment and resentment leads to a break up. Being realistic does not equal trolling.

Personally I would not get married in your situation but encourage Blue to get another job and cover his own health insurance, but I am a hard case. However, I think you actually would like to be married, sometimes people just DO, so get married but I don't think there is anyway at all to...

Sorry if I missed it but is there a reason he is staying at home? What was he doing before he moved in with you and why can't he work?

Aaah right. Well that is because some people are voyeuristic I suppose and maybe they would like that. However, you know there is no "normal" you don't have to put up with it because you think it is normal, you don't have to put up with anything you are not comfortable with. You just have to...

Why does he think you would want a picture of this strangers lady bits? That seems really odd to me.

I am a great believer in a more communal style of living in general and I am grateful for a gradual moving away of traditional nuclear family units because they are just SO inefficient and I think a lot of people do better with more support around. Buuuuut (and it is a big one) we have lost...

Alternatively OP, there is another Michigan couple with a bisexual female searching and joined recently too, why not consider contacting them, I always feel if every BiFSM couple reached out to each other than you would have far fewer frustrations...

Bofish, can you see anywhere where I called you judgemental. Not everything is about you. I was saying that mild is not a very well defined word and no one should judge that for anyone else.

What the tickety boo is a *mild* disability anyway? One persons mild might be another persons intolerable. Don't judge that for anyone else please.

Maybe it is some Orgasmic Meditation Conference that they spoke of?

Have you had any professional help with your problems OP? It seems to me that it is not a poly forum that can truly help you because this is not an issue about love or relationships, it is an issue of trauma.