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Hmmmmm.....I just think it sounds awfully familiar is all....like there are several women, in the exact same position, around the same age, with the same sort of writing style, doing the same thing of complaining about a situation but refusing to take any of the advice given...it is just so...

Why does this thread seem so very familiar?

Seriously? Good Grief......:mad:

You know it is not your job to fix their marriage or make them better parents. You only have a responsibility to yourself and your child, put him first in all this, he needs stability, give yourself some options, you are not at the whim of this couple.

You can't stay in a relationship which leaves you as an optional extra just because it was a hassle to move. I moved 24 hours away from my home...seriously. I still moved back to where I was happy, feeling in love is temporary, relationship satisfaction relies on so much more. Have some self...

Some pointers might be: 1) Meet women with a high libido 2) Don't date women with a low libido. Not sure how Kevin is supposed to help you! :p

Partner was definitely there because I used it. I just went back to check and it looks like they removed the option. And they also removed the marital ones from there, since I know a man who had two women listed as 'Wife' that way, I realise now that Facebook has purposely removed that...

You can write 'In a relationship with' and then add them to your friends list AS 'husband' and 'boyfriend' or both 'partners' or both 'husbands' but you simply can't in your relationship status.

You know like on the other thread I told you to get over it? Get yourself a gf and then she will have to get over it too. She wants this lifestyle she will just have to learn to work on her jealousy issues just like you do.

First of all that demand is just stupid, where are you going to pick up a girlfriend from? The girlfriend Market? This could have all been prevented by your metamour having firm boundaries in the first place, pity she did not think of her boyfriend before sleeping with you! Does he even know...

I know that but they won't get it from me! That which is within my control...and all that.

Personally I don't see the issue with an open relationship, if his needs are purely physical. That way he has a wider number of people available to have relationships with and of course that leaves you to also have a wider number of people. The idealisation of Unicorns is just getting...

Well if she doesn't want to sleep with you and they are not bothered, than...get over it. If you have two bedrooms can't they sleep in the spare (I am assuming there is a spare and that is why you mentioned it)? The only person who can scupper this relationship is you (and maybe the boyfriend...

Thank you for telling me but that just makes me even more determined not to get it. It would just inhibit my life too much :( I apologise for saying that an adult who gave it to a child did it because they were ignorant or selfish.

Does it bother any of you that it will never happen again? If not, than there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to have a happy, healthy Poly relationship, Poly doesn't equal having to sleep together all the time.

My friend was the same.

Because I am a woman in reproductive age who has just been pregnant, because I would like to again and because I realised when pregnant that I can't rely on someone else to be aware of their bodies and sometimes people might even ignore warning signs because they are horny and put me at risk! I...

Personally OP, I don't like PDA at all, has nothing to do with Poly, I am an affectionate person to those I love, but I can't stand kissing or holding hands in public. Not because I am embarrassed or shy, I just don't want to do it. I don't need to show the world I am in love, I don't think...

Are you saying that because your feelings are hurt and you don't have closure you are unable to be a friend to her? I really am not sure you can say anything to her which might not feel like pressure and you disrespecting her boundaries. The only thing I can suggest is to write her an email...

I still am not sure what you want. She has changed her mind, she has expressed it, so why do you still need to communicate more on that topic? She seems to be self aware enough to know that pursuing a relationship with you might cause her some emotional difficulties. You need to be...