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You might want to rethink calling her a Unicorn.

A rewarding polycule for whom? Is she really benefitting? Will she be a long distance lover after you move requiring her to spend a great deal of money keeping the relationship going or what? Because I don't see how this rewards her at all or if starting a relationship is a loving thing to do...

She has a one-month old baby and is ready to date? I am the single mother of a nine-month old and not ready yet, but I tell you one thing, I AM ready for someone else to be around for support. That is not exactly the best reason to start a relationship though, so you can have a bit of support...

Woah, wait a sec... You wrote "Sarah is willing to let go of her OSO"? So she has not done it yet? What's she doing, waiting for you to dump yours before she dumps hers? Is she still seeing him, talking to him, sleeping with him all the while waiting to drop him cold as soon as you drop yours...

OP, as you can see, posts like yours actually come up here on a fairly frequent basis. Please do read fully the threads suggested and take time to process what is said to you before replying. There is a reason why these threads garner a lot of negativity. Please take this opportunity to learn...

OP, just have confidence that it is not your job to fix what is happening in their marriage. You have to tell them confidently in your role as equal partner to them, that their dysfunction is affecting your sense of security and they should 'sort it out!' If that means that they both make more...

I am specifically responding to the 'If you're Poly...' part, I don't feel whether he is poly or not has any bearings on it. I agree that it is not a smart thing to do though. As for M, she clearly is not interested in doing anything but seeking attention. But be real D, this is not an...

I feel you Opalescent, I have been there, more than once in fact and I now realise that I just cannot do it again, this last time was a kick in the arse for me I need someone in my life who can focus and not need to be micro managed in how to relate to another human all the time. I am afraid I...

I have a friend who was emotionally separated from her husband (and partially physically separated) from him, he had hopes of reconciliation, my hope was that my friend get out of the situation and be somewhat independent, alas at an event we were at she met some other guy, I warned her, do not...

I think that breakdown was about him realising the true nature and extent of his feelings. Even Poly people get jealous c'mon!!!

OP, you can start by recognising you have become infatuated by a twisted monster. If that doesn't cool your cockles and realise that you should regard her with contempt, not puppy dog adoration, than I don't know what will. You have an amazing wife, who is about to give birth, stop being such...

At the end of the day OP, few (if any)of us have ever seen long term success by anyone looking for a Unicorn, though people may have had success falling into a triad relationship naturally after dating separately.

*sigh* Few women want to be called a Unicorn, it is just so awfully objectifying. :(

Oh I see where I got confused now, still she does seem to indicate that she is apparentlyexpected to be intimate with the wife also. It seriously seems like a bait and switch situation to me.

Tricksy behaviour, you were told he was married after the fact AND they titled you a Unicorn. Sounds like some clueless couple was tired of waiting and decided to try to find their Unicorn by lying. I don't date liars. Sack them!

That is a great way to look at it, thank you. Aaah, sometimes I forget what a joy it is to encounter cultured people....my friends are such chavs...thank you again ;)

Do you think maybe there is a feeling here that somehow by sleeping with the F*ckwits you are rewarding them for bad behaviour? Because I tell you one thing, that is how I felt by reading Scarlet's post, like well great, he didn't get rewarded that night the f*ckwit. I don't want to sound...

I wonder whether you might have some luck looking for a man interested in cuckold fetish, something might develop from that?

*sigh* What a wasted opportunity. smh.

I'm sorry but I'm really slow, how so? I don't get it. Welcome! I hope you have fun here :)