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wow! you really take the cake! I guess age makes it more legit (harder to find eye witnesses and physical evidence therefore easier to obfuscate the truth).

Expect drama and violent opposition to you dating another guy. He may even tell you he's prepared to give up his girlfriend so that doesn't happen.

Expecting equal love and attention between three people is nearly impossible. It is evident that she is in love with your husband and friendly with you. She can no more force herself to have deeper feelings for you than you can force her to have deeper feelings for you. Here is my...

How? Cowgirl? I thought most people on here agree that an existing relationship should not end just because a partner and metamore are having issues. If this is a true triad she has the right to see either one of them or both. If she chooses to step back from one or the other that is also up...

Fuck Christians, some people get tired of sitting silently in deference to the beliefs of the most popular flavor mythology at the moment.

I'm guessing you're not answering my question about your relationship with this guy because the answer is unsavory. I'm not here to judge but I do think knowing who this guy is in terms of how you have known him since he was 13 years old MIGHT be something important to analyze. It would seem...

Yes! Put the marriage on pause! This is just as important as being on the same page about having kids. Nobody should enter marriage with one partner wanting kids and the other undecided or against it, the same is true for poly.

It may seem to be more life changing but many view poly as less tolerable. Most people view skipping church as a lull that will go away after awhile and most understand it because its sooooooo tempting to do even for the most strident church goers. When one spouse goes to church and the other...

I'm having a hard time imagining having suppressed homoerotic sex and feelings for a boy (he is still a boy) that you've known since he was 13! EW! What is your connection to him that you've known him that long? Your wife should also start doing the work of imagining you with a 23 year old...

And yet again this is between them. Its on him how much he wants to be public about you. She's not stopping him, he's catering to her drama. Its certainly not your place to make it happen. YOU can be public about him. HE can be public about you. If either one of you encounters resistance...

The problem is hers then. You making sure she knows who you are and what your place is by no means is going to make her accept it. Its not your place to be sure she can handle you being referred to as the "girlfriend". Its not even your boyfriends place. He can and should refer to you...

You need to stop focusing on her. Get over the fact that you are not important to her. You have no relationship with her so who cares if she's not respectful of you? It seems to me you are pissing around your boyfriend like a cat claiming its territory. You are wrapped up in how much more...

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You say that "we plan" for you to stay mono. That's fine if its what YOU decide. However issues can arise if you change your mind and decide you would like to see other women. A double standard is rarely healthy unless its entered into willingly and thoughtfully with the possibility of...

So he is open to other lovers and sex partners? She really should know about that or he is cheating on her. As far as his girlfriend...she's passive aggressive and there is no future in building a relationship with her. She has made it abundantly clear. I think she prefers to pretend you...

I think you're better off walking away from her. Let him have her as a prize. Go find a woman 10 years younger have kids and live life to the fullest. Don't look back. She's excited about poly and is a serial cheater,you identify as mono. I see no happiness for you staying with her...

Your husband is a douche bag from the sounds of it and only cares about his wants and needs. This will crash and burn if only due to the fact that he is orchestrating it. You have been warned by EVERYONE here.

This will be the biggest mistake of your life. 1. You have no idea if you can handle poly 2. You don't know if you will be able to handle your husband fucking, dating, and loving another woman. 3. You tried an open relationship before and it failed 4. You are planning on moving her into...

Dinham... Before you start any further down the road I want you to contemplate your husband freely dating and fucking and loving another woman. If you can't handle that thought then you guys have a lot of work ahead of you before this kicks off into high gear. Galagirl is perhaps the most...