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THIS times 1000!!!! Never have a kid unless it is with joy in the heart from ALL involved. Traditionally this means the mom and dad but I think that should include your husband.

I would strongly urge you NOT to have his baby. This will needlessly complicate your existing family in ways you can't prepare for. You and your husband along with your child stand the the chance of being ostracized. I would strongly urge you to look into a surrogate. Maybe you could then...

you sound like you're 14 in your description. Grow up and love people for who they are. I'm sure each of these men don't find you absolutely perfect and wouldn't mind if you were more like Jessica Alba or Zooey Deschanel, but instead have to live with reality and take the good with the bad...

my bad...its your bf and not your husband. I guess I can understand a little more but I guess poly is poly. I know many people stop at two but there are others who want the freedom to meet as many people as they desire.

not to sound mean but...suck it up buttercup You've really only been half poly in my estimation, and the easier half at that. I don't believe anyone is truly full blown poly unless they have lived up to the standard from both sides of the coin. Its easy to love more than one, go on dates and...

Here is where you need to decide a few things. Fairness has nothing to do with your ability to have just as many relationships or just as much sex or just as many dates as your spouse. I guarantee you that if you lived at home she would still get more suitors than you will because she is a...

I have a hunch he will be ecstatic but won't tell you. He gets to have you all to himself. Things will be wonderful until you decide you want to continue having an open relationship because you just met someone. Then the drama will begin and he will give you an ultimatum... Am I a pessimist...

It's a stupid rule and its none of your business when they have sex. Is she allowed to know when you have sex? Does she need to be kept appraised of that? Sex is private. Most don't get into sharing details like where when and how. Why is it that poly makes people go crazy and demand such...

You will see all kinds of reasons for why the opp is considered wrong. But I will still holding on to the fact that's the major reason why I understand it is because I think a lot of guy are grossed out by the thought of semen and penises other than their own being near the woman they love. I...

I am a supporter of the OPP when it is used as a mutual agreement between partners. Everything is a negotiation in relationships. I know a lot of people view the OPP as misogynistic but I think it goes way deeper than that. Its a major deal to be able to get a partner to agree to an open...

Your comment about not being afraid of honesty is damaging and ... dishonest You claim it's only because he don't want to hurt your partner . Can't you see that that means you are afraid of honesty? Nobody is afraid of honesty, what they are afraid of is the effect that the honesty will have...

I think its hilarious they refer to themselves as bulls. Reminds me of that cuckold who use to come around here talking about how his wifes lover was MUCH bigger than his and how wonderful a BBC (big black c**k) was. LOL good times...good times

you're absolutely right that sounds weird. a. you're in a relationship with a poly girl b. you love her so much and don't want to lose her c. you're moving out in hopes of seeing her less d. you're moving out so you can start dating and sleeping around you could have the best of all...

I feel for your situation and commend you for looking out for your husbands needs during a difficult time. I believe the best thing you can do right now is try to feel empathy for both your husband and his girlfriend. Its a terrible thing to have something taken away after you have...

www.youtube.com/watch?v=wv-34w8kGPM maybe this could help

She sounds like lousy marriage material. She's infatuated with this new guy and is being completely dismissive to you.

I think the three most important things are 1. Trust that your partner loves you and will make good decisions so as not to expose you to harm or your relationship to harm. This belief in your partner will prevent the necessity for "rules" and give him/her license to pursue their own...

The OP really rubs me the wrong way and comes off as selfish and very abrasive it would be the last kind of person I would ever want to have as a metamour. She seems to be very blasé about other peoples feelings other than her own. She destroyed her marriage because she wanted poly and...

you three have ALOT of discussion that needs to happen before she moves in. Boundaries and expectations will need to be established no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Of course they can change over time as the relationship evolves . I think the best thing you can do is not move in together...

people are touchy