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Hi, welcome :)

There is a polyandry group on facebook that I am a member of. Though we are not a specific kind of poly. I am married, and bi and 46. I have no other partners at the moment, but would love to find one. lolol or two....

Just off the top of my head, my first thought is that all the texts, emails, etc., don't really scream independent female. It seems a little "come on too strong," all the while you're explaining to him that he would have the freedom to be himself. Actions speak louder than words most of the...

Hi.. You asked if I knew of any poly groups in town and I am in California and you are in portland I think??? so i dont know of any groups in your area... nice to meet you

Other than the obvious, it not being very moral, I always think of the scenario of what happens when there are feelings involved between the cheater and the enabler, and the cheated-on spouse finds out and offers an ultimatum-- choose him/her or me? Not many say "hasta la vista" to the spouse...

Are you asking her to allow you multiple sex partners? or polyamorous relationships? Will she be able to have the same opportunities as you? Have you thought about what your going to do if she says "no, in no way will I participate in this."?

Huh????? That sounds a bit harsh, don't you think? If you have an issue with "some on here," do you not think it should be taken up with them in private and not put it here on this thread?

Start telling them, "No, I will not watch your child."

Ah darn. There go the cups and the t-shirts. :)

About 3 weeks ago, my hubby met a girl online. they got along well, and exchanged phone numbers. During the first texts or so or maybe a talk on the phone (I don't remember) she told him that she had herpes. He then told me. Our initial reaction was no biggie. IF they remained friends it would...

At the time I was a "unicorn" (though I had no idea of the term) the couple I was involved with owned their own home and had a child (a two-bedroom home: one theirs, one the child's) and I had my own home and children. So living together was not an interest or doable for the three of us.

I'll speak up... At one time I was a unicorn. Single, a mother, owned my own home, and loved being a unicorn. It suited me perfectly. If I were to be single again, it would be something I would do again. Nancy

Hi Anny, It's too bad your going to disappear.. I was going to say that we have alot in common.. We live in the boonies and I am pre-menopausal (which happens to be causing issues..lol). Was hoping to get to know you and share info on both.. Still hope to see you around.. Nancy

You make it sound as if you think women are toys. If you haven't cared for a woman in 3 years, why would you marry a woman? Why bother to marry or live with someone at all? If you are upset about her having sex and texting you, it sounds like you care for her. None of what the two of you are...

Hi Tommy Welcome to the forum.. We are in Cali too (I am from Cali, hubby from Hawaii)....

Hi, From Cali as well.. Also born and raised.... It does get better. Alot of talking to your hubby, maybe some writing (or alot if that's your outlet) and time will help. Big huge hugs...

I'm glad you talked and cuddled and feel better. I think it's a good idea to get to know her. I hope it works out well for you!!!!

Hey there. I'm bisexual with no sex drive. (Could be all those kids. lol) But yes, to get the 5 (3 are hubby's from another mother) I biologically had, there were fertility doctors and procedures involved.

I must say that I am pleased that I am not the only asexual poly person in the world. Sometimes it feels that way... I did the compare the gf thing once. It earned me 2 weeks of depression before I realized (with the loving help of my hubby) that I was different than the gf and that though she...

I think all three of you need to talk. If he is telling you info of or about her or what she is saying, it might be more helpful to hear it from her directly.