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Hi, Welcome to the forum.. We (nutbusterx and I) just ended a V of a very short time. Would love to hear some of your experiences. Looking forward to reading more from you. Nancy

Why do you need to explain to anyone what you do behind closed doors?? Cant you just tell them its private between my wife and I and your opinions of our lifestyle are not welcome?? Ethical non-monogamy isn't going to be explained away to conservative Christians very easily.. and if they say...

Hello hello, Hope you find that special person or people... Nancy

lol.. whatever it is, enjoy it!!!

Congrats, congrats, congrats. Honesty is hard, but it is true about truth and freedom.

Do you think that his lack of total honesty may be feeding her concerns??? Honesty (even if it hurts) allows the other person to understand where your at in your relationship (or their own), allows her to know his feelings, and allows her to start processing that truth...

Hi GSophia, Nice to meet you.. Nancy

Hi, Welcome... She might be less skeptical after reading a bit about poly. Though at times it can be very hard, the benefits far out weigh the risks for hubby (nutbusterx) and I. Hope you find the info your looking for to help in your path.. Nancy

Hey there... Sounds like things are going pretty good despite the other couple and their issues.. Glad your feeling back to your poly self too.. Baby and hormone recovery can be a hard road to travel.. Nancy

Hi, Welcome to the forum... You'll find alot of useful information and a plethora of people to talk to. Hope you find the answers your looking for. Nancy

Hi GG, Hope you find some poly people to meet with in your area.. We are in Central Cali. Nice to meet you. Nancy

Hi Sterling119, You seem to have such a lovely V, and my best wishes for a smooth future together... Nancy

You don't know me, so attacking me by saying what you said is hardly an appropriate thing to do. Also, what I meant by what I said is that I think that the question would be something that would have been common to say without being manipulative.

Big hugs, I know this sucks... His statement that he wishes he hadn't gotten back together with you and wishes he had met her sooner is certainly not being kind to you at all, and if he doesn't meet your needs, you might need to break away from him. Its going to hurt yes, but it's not seeming...

"Why did you not defend me?" is a question, a normal question from a wife to a husband who is feeling attacked and watching her husband create a response, then not post it. I would have asked the same question. Egoscout, I hope and think that you both can work through all of this and come out...

HI.. I am an acts of service person too.. and hubby is a quality time guy...

The Five Love Languages is an interesting book.. both of us have read it and taken the quiz and share results in order to figure out how best to understand what the other needs and how they receive what we give..

Is he having trouble with the move from swinging to relationship? Maybe the change scares him. Maybe he thought casual sex was/is okay, but developing feelings wasn't what he thought it would be, and he is now wishing it could be back to swinging again. Can you put your bf on hold, or leave...

Have you asked her to take a break with her partners for a little while so you can work through your feelings? Starting other relationships isn't going to help with the problems of the current one and it isn't really fair to the women you would be in a relationship with.

Sorry to hear that you started out "poly" as a "cheating" episode... You probably aren't ever going to get rid of these feelings with this particular woman, because the relationship started out as cheating... Reading threads and articles on jealousy might help, also journaling might help too...