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This is a tad off topic, but do you find it acceptable to be called his "mistress" every where you go?? Is it only FWB? It sounds as though you might feel as if your not quite equal because your constantly reminded by what they say that your not... Nancy

I totally agree... I had to end a marriage to save my poly self, and never regretted a minute of it.. It was hard, and hard on the kids involved but they see and accept a much happier momma..

Just thought I'd say hi... Communication is the most important thing.. I don't think you can talk to much at all.. Your situation sounds great.. good luck with it all..

Hi, Hope this site helps.. I'm sure it will. I've had two miscarriages, couldn't have any more children so we went into foster care and adoption... total of 19 now..lol Hugs, Nanch

hi.. Opening our marriage was an awesome experience and we love it.. Good luck to you and yours!!!! Nancy

HI Hi, We are in Cali as well, we are between Fresno and the Grapevine.. Nice to meet you..

hi.. How awesome are you?! I think its totally cool that you are poly and an officiant..

Hi, There is alot to read here and everyone is more than helpful with questions... Have a great weekend!

Though I have no advise for the situation your in, I agree with Red that this is your opportunity to do somethings you've wanted to get done, maybe start a new hobby to get your mind off of their date. But I wanted to say hooray for you.. You seemed to have come along way and your "breathing...

I think continued reading and communication will help, but I dont think its something that can be cured by tonight. It takes time to understand all the dynamics that cause the jealousy and alot of communication to help you be more secure. Hugs..

I agree with KyleKat. You should talk to him about all aspects of the poly life he wants to lead. You shouldn't be "forced" into anything, and he should be patient with you and your getting used to the idea. If your number one as he says then he should be slowing down until you are comfortable...

Talking everything out extensively will help.. Telling him how your feeling might help him understand that going a little slower or establishing some rules will help you through this...

The introspection is awesome!! So few really take the time to think, listen, and learn and then do something about it.. KUDOS!!

Thanks for all the info. I am having to defend myself when people find out that I am Christian and polyamorous. The answer that I really never questioned God's love, and it feels right, doesn't go over well with some. :rolleyes: This helps. I will read and study in depth, so I can supply a more...

We are near the Bakersfield area...

No problem..lol Hope you had a great day!!!!

My initial thought was the same as SchrodingersCat's first paragraph. I have had a reaction like that once when I thought my boyfriend and I were going to end our relationship. I worked thru it the one time it happened and have not had it happen with other relationships either. Not sure how...

Hello hello.. We are in Cali too..

Hi, I am the same way. Reg: "terrible at posting"... I am the worlds worst at introductions.. :cool:

Agreed.. Congrats on the new baby!!!