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    Social Anxiety Sucks!

    I'm very much into the whole 'facing your fears' thing. Often when you shine a light on a fear, you see that there was nothing to be frightened of. But if you let it fester away in the back of your mind - that's when it has power. What you want is to feel confident, right? Like you can just go...
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    Mixed feelings...

    Love this post. If you're gonna wait 2 and a half years to make your first post, you might as well make it a good one ;)
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    Desired destinations?

    Agreed. Toilet Seat Guy...might want to have another name if you ever actually meet him in real life.
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    Desired destinations?

    I'm not sure my budget would stretch to a life sized doll from Japan. But thanks for the tip off anyway, Ducky. I worked through quite a few jealousy issues just being in that situation. But I'm sure I would still have some work to do. You don't know until you out yourself in that position...
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    Desired destinations?

    Haha...I will have to start calling you Ducky. I haven't read the whole site by any means, but have covered a lot more. I read the stuff on jealousy - both the theory and practice, and it made a lot of sense. I remember my last girlfriend, when we first met, she told me how she had an affair...
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    Desired destinations?

    Haha...your international dolls sound awesome. They would certainly tide me over for a while if nothing else ;) I have just started looking at that site you posted, and I'm very interested. First page I'm looking at right now is the 'dos and don'ts', and that in itself is some really solid...
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    Desired destinations?

    Trust me, when you can see routinely on top the fridge, it doesn't seem like such a blessing ;) My 5 year plan- well I don't have one. My only goal is to become self sustainable money wise. I've been doing quite well on the Internet recently, so just need to give it another 6 months to see if...
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    Desired destinations?

    How does The Pidge feel about your man desires? As far as I'm concerned, any woman who desires a physically strong man is alright with me ;)
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    Heartbroken

    I used to date a girl like that...we'd break up and I'd move on a few weeks later... ...then she would contact me out of the blue, and stir up a bunch of drama again... ...then we'd stop talking...and she'd appear again... ...ugh. It's like every time the person gets in contact it resets your...
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    Heartbroken

    Sorry to hear that. These things are always really raw in the immediate aftermath. See what a good dose of time does for your feelings on the situation.
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    jealousy

    I just think this whole way of life is so different to what nearly all of us have been raised to believe is 'right', that it takes some getting our heads around. Keep talking to your man - don't bottle it all up, you'll just worry, and play out various situations and worst case scenarios over...
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    Mom, Where are we going? Crazy dear.

    Hear hear. Or is it here here. Never quite been sure on that one.
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    jealousy

    Well, I'll attempt to give some sort of answer, since noone else seems likely to. I'm not sure if I fully read the situation right - have you had any kind of involvement with this girl before? And does she know of your interest? My personal view is that in any relationship, in general honesty...
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    jealousy

    I pity you.
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    jealousy

    Boringguy, is your default response to be totally condesceding and superior, no matter what the input? If so, a rename to lonelyguy might be appropriate.
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    Girlfriend's dating problems and trans issues

    It may be a comparison, but not a credible one. If 99.9% of women are cis-women, then it's not unreasonable to assume if a profile says 'woman' are you are meeting a cis-woman. I am a guy. If I suddenly decide tomorrow I am a woman, and state so on my dating profile, it doesn't mean the rest...
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    Girlfriend's dating problems and trans issues

    Cis-puss was because she calls herself cat. Cat = puss. The term pussy didn't even enter my head. If I'd meant it like that, why not just say cis-pussy? You people.
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    Girlfriend's dating problems and trans issues

    Mocking genitals? What are you talking about? You're right in that I am dismissive of SC, mainly because she can't expressive herself without being overly aggressive and resorting to personal attacks. Looking through the forum, this is not just towards me, it's towards anyone who offers an...
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    Polyamorous girlfriend wants to see ex-boyfriend...am I right to feel uneasy?

    Thanks for your balanced, flame-free post. It makes a nice change to speak to someone here without being personally insulted. The fact that a person says they need a 'method of attack' because character insults are not allowed, says it all. What kind of discussion board needs attack as its...
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    Girlfriend's dating problems and trans issues

    What's so offensive about it?
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