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I don't see the problem. Would you like to explain?

Of course it's different. Many men would consider a woman from birth to be completely different to a woman who has gotten there from surgery and hormones.

The definition doesn't matter...I don't see the value in debating it. If you're living a lifestyle that causes you constant insecurity and general bad feelings...and it's not just a phase you're working through...then it is not for you. You can still technically be poly, but why would you...

I think you have to ask yourself if you're actually ready to go poly yet or not. It sounds like not. It sounds like it's something you're doing to try and please her. Hence, you can just about cope with the idea of her meeting some random dude that she has no feelings for, but meeting her ex is...

Yeah, I don't think it's right if she's going on dates with guys who think she's a real female, then she later reveals she's not. It's like coming out of a shop thinking you've purchased one product when in fact they've sold you something else. There are plenty of dudes out there who have a...

Welcome. I'm from the north west and only joined today myself.

I don't think it has to be as simple as saying 'ditch the boyfriend'. It might well be the case that he ends up wanting to leave his fiancee for you, simply because you are offering something she isn't. You are offering non-judgement, openness and freedom...she is offering him a cage. It...

Yeah, I think you're onto something there, Wolf. I imagine most of the guys you'll get messages from are thinking 'omg how hot would it be to get in with a FF couple!!!' and you get the super horny filthbag emails. The decent genuine guys who want to give something rather than just take - it's...

Thanks again. What's your experience of this lifestyle been like?

Awesome...thanks Kevin. Do you know what kind of response people have had on 'traditional' dating sites like pof when they advertise their 'polyness'? You're right - I am primarily looking to explore connections in person, rather than keeping things theoretical. However what those connections...

Hi all, Apologies if I'm going to ask a question here that's been covered 1000s of times already. So at the age of 33, having had a number of mono relationships that are always great at first, but I end up feeling stifled after a while, I'm ready to explore poly. I'm looking for advice/help...