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Ty Kevin 😊. We have separated as of last night but hopefully we can be civil on a custody agreement lol and I didn’t believe him and he took it back last night anyways hahaha

O I got a therapist hahaha she helps a lot and he just finally got one to yesterday! So maybe there’s hope. Thank u so much tho I am glad this site exists and people that have been in this for along time give great advice!

Funny tho ya’ll are helping me!

No lol u need to actually read everything it’s wasn’t cuz he found someone!

Omg he just came home after counseling and said “I value our relationship over a friendship” WTF? I don’t believe him at all. I moved into the spare room I told him I was done…(I don’t want to be but I’m tired of this back n forth) and he thinks I’m bluffing. I told him if he ACTUALLY vale’s it...

Yes issue he would get full custody and the 9 year old is his stepson. And he wouldn’t block me the courts would. And it’s what my lawyer told me 😕

No I agree but plz read the reply I sent to the below person. I really don’t have a choice…it’s see my baby boy (16months) or don’t… 😣

She has compassion but she not actually dying she just got some bad test results I guess but I mentioned that to my husband and he still says he wants to talk to her and I said.” When’s she’s on her death bed then I’ll let u talk but till then no” and now he’s getting mad. And ya there’s more to...

I wish he could understand this. It makes me want to open the relationship back up so I can find someone, just give up and cohabitate with him, like, legally separate, but still live with him, for the kids' sake. Is that a bad idea?

I ended up texting her to make sure that she was really telling the truth. I don’t know that she will die, but she has bad heart issue that her husband texted my husband about. I’m not really sure what’s happening. I basically told her that I needed to know what was going on, because it would...

I even asked him like if he could find a compromise, like 20 minutes a week, and he can’t even try to say, oh, maybe if you let me do this like once a week, or, you know one time a day, or something. He won’t do that. It’s like all or nothing. Yeah, I think you might be right, but I don’t think...

Update! So now she’s dying, and her husband contacted my husband to tell him. So she respected the no talking for 6 months. However, at the start of this, my needs were: please do not talk to her for six months, and if you can’t do that, then I’m going to leave with the kids. So he agreed to...

Hahaha um not he was reluctant to start I had options right from the start and they died off cuz it was just sex. And yes like 3 months of dating sites. And she was not a poly therapist I guess, just a regular one. Yes age gap=sex issues. But I shouldn’t have opened just for that reason. I...

We are too new. He didn’t know how to be a good hinge. And yes, basically till we feel secure in our marriage with counseling.

On OKC. They have a strong emotional bond and that’s what he doesn’t wanna give up. And no, she’s pretty much convinced him I’m controlling him cuz he has a hard time with his ADD and remembering stuff. So I have to remind him, or help with scheduling, and she thinks that me being...

Yes, I’ve read that article. He just agreed to stop talking to her, but thinks that because I called the counselor in a hurry, to get the answers before Thursday, so I could have some sanity, it was a power play, because she agreed with me. But really, she had told him last week, but he only...

I did figure out that part of what I’m feeling is that she had/has replaced me emotionally, but not physically. Like, if she had my body she would be his perfect match. Also, the way he talks to, defends and protects her from me, is what he USED to do for me to other people, and now he does it...

Yeah. Our marriage counselor told him to stop talking to her, because it’s not beneficial to our closing. But he doesn’t see why he needs to. I’m leaving, hoping and praying he will see what it’s like with me being gone, and realizing he does love me and will do what’s needed to fix it, or he...

She does, but I don’t wanna take that chance. And you never know. She hasn’t infected anyone yet. He could be the one that gets it. But thank you for the comment. Unfortunately, my husband and I are separated for a month cuz he doesn’t wanna close, and he still wants to be friends with this...

It was bad for two days. Now it’s better. I decided to open cuz of the age gap.