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Absolutely. I do not credit his reaction to being a bio-parent or not. It was personal, from my point of view. If my character would have been like his, I would have struggled just as he did, I am sure of that. That is what 'you will never know till you experienced it' is about in regard to...

Oh of course not, fuchka. We thought about that quite a bit and I can say, that things are slowly changing with time. Reasons ... well: There are some from my point of view. The most important one is Lin's personality. He is egocentric, a bit narcissistic even. Little children take away all of...

Ufff ... that was unexpected. I can't say much, just know that I am thinking of you. What a shock and what a large scale of everything there is to this. Very sorry for LB, children suffer losses like that on a whole different level :(

Guess what ... our boy thinks that we haven't had enough excitement lately. Now he came down with croup today! Why not a simple cold for a start, when he made it this far without being ill at all :(

I know it happens to others as well. Even though the medical staff at the hospital was suspecting us of hurting her intentionally. It was really unpleasant when we noticed in which direction their questions headed, when we were admissioned. Our problem right now is, that she is totally...

Indeed, there is never a perfect time for kids ;) We learned that for sure. Even though, I was able to finish my examination phase with 1,0 :D It went really well. I was a bit astonished, that the lack of time for my usual preparation routine did not impact the results in a negative way...

Hey, checking in again :) Things are looking better by now. As Sward began working, our little ones became more and more mobile and therefore really easy to keep busy. They can spend hours just lying and crawling around, babbling in their two to three letter syllables and after they started to...

Well, not such a happy update for now, but overall things already got better, as we finally were able to talk and track down the problems at hand. I am really glad to hear that usually things settle down after the first year, Indygirl, because right now, things are taking their toll on us. To...

Hey there, how is everyone doing? We are still well. The twins are great. They started to make their first noises and smile brightly at us. Soooo adorable. The boy is having some problems in the evening, he used to scream for some minutes or even hours the last two days, but I guess this shall...

Thanks a lot to all of you :) We are happy indeed and our little twins are angels, you are right. We were lucky and the two are quite easy to handle up to now. Of course, you never know, they are with us two weeks and things may change. Sward and Lin are well and proud fathers for sure ^.^ We...

Just a little check-in during this crazy, busy time. Our twins are with us! The two little ones were born on 13th August in the evening, a tiring experience but I pulled it off without a Ceasarean and I am damn happy about that fact. I am still dealing with the aftermath of that day, because...

I know how good it feels to read of similar experiences :) Glad that it was of help for you. I had a look at your story and I feel, that you will need a different arrangement than we found but our story seems similar in other areas of your relationship(s) for sure. Wishing just for the best to...

Hey there, seems like I tend to check in during the holidays ... :p I hope everyone is fine. We sure are :) We moved into our new home a week ago (officially) and started renovating as much as possible during the week before our deadline. Still a bit of chaos around us, but things getting in...

Isn't there a fundamental problem with this 'giving perspective' in general you are asking for here, Kevin? Everyone will answer according to his/her personal moral code, but just like Jane put it, my personal moral code wouldn't let me keep an affair for such a long time to myself. I couldn't...

A little update after a month has passed again. The move is getting closer and we start to actually plan for everything thinkable and unthinkable. Or to put it better - we try to :) Of course there will be some hiccups when we are at it, we don't have a lot of time as well, because a week...

I can't really comprehend what this second side of the story has shaped it into. It is mind boggling. :eek: I am truly sorry that you had to live through this and am happy to hear that things got better for you lastly. Thanks for sharing.

We are hoping for that as well, Ry :) Thanks. And thanks all for being happy for us ;) Life sure is great right now and I wouldn't be too displeased if it stays that way :D

Hey there :) Still well, still pregnant, still awake in the middle of the night ^.^ My rhythm is totally off since December and I guess this could be a a foretaste of what is to come in the future. My belly is starting to curve, it started about 3 weeks ago and by now I can't roll over in bed...

Middle of the night at my place and I am ... awake. *sigh* One of the many nights I spend in close embrace with the toilet :p Aside from that, everything is good. The twins are well and all of us are really exited what our lifes will be like in August. I am still sleeping a lot, but the level...

Thanks for sharing our excitement ;) I couldn't keep quiet about it, as my sister was the one who gave me the shots and my mother was the one who had to lend me her car, when Sward was gone working, everyone was asking if we succeeded. I told them after we had the first confirmation from my...