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  1. Phy

    What is appropriate to post about & where? (Autumnaltone please read)

    Sorry if I missed something but I was wondering: What is different about FOL and GalaGirl? Both lived poly, both are in a closed relationship with their husbands right now and both say that they are able to love more than one. No one ever told GG to not post here any more and that her blog...
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    Long time lurker, first time poster (I think?)

    Hey there. I am really sorry you are having such a rough time. I can emphasize as my situation is kind of similar, even though I am the healthy one so far and my men have to deal with all this limited fertility and infertility shit. We have had our first IUI and I thought about sharing what my...
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    How does everyone handle arguments?

    Yep. I was thinking about this, as well. I count to '1' in regard to Lin and '1/2' plus '1/2' when I think of my serious-argument history with Sward during the last 1 1/2 years. Must mean that everything is just fine. ;)
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    How does everyone handle arguments?

    I am in a relationship with two men. I can tell you about how it usually goes in our case. I have to say in advance that this obviously is only how we work. If I argue with one of them, I don't go to the other to seek comfort in that way. When I am upset I have no desire for sex, so that...
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    Thanks Annabel. But I guess it sounds way more emotional than it really is right now. I was really worried about Lin and his condition, but when he finally got the result, it was all kind of calm. It's right, better to have something final, but honestly, I think that his doctor told him...
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    Again some weeks have passed and I have been busy. I got my grade for the written test and it was good. I hoped for a better one, but second best possible will do. I was a bit stuck in regard to my papers, but two are almost done. Totally lacking in motivation but the deadline is on Saturday, so...
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    the story of a secondary

    Hey there :) I was thinking about the same topic while reading your entries (here and on your tumblr) but I want to add something else: Yes, you are right to stay wary and not fall too deep right now, but honestly, this seems to be what you needed so much and now that you found it, I can...
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    the story of a secondary

    Oh dear, so know this feeling :D Even though it took me longer to reach that point ;) Wishing for a great date for you two and further inspiring conversation till then :cool:
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    It has been some time, since I posted. We have been doing well. Still nothing much going on, but I thought about an update :) Concerning the baby-front, Sward has been to second test and it seems that the actions we took worked out and improved his results. Doesn't look as dire as before and...
  10. Phy

    Why and how did you get into poly?

    Because I fell in love :) Not ensured that this solves the confusion (far from it mostly), but that usually is my answer.
  11. Phy

    Spilling the poly secret to your best friend

    So know this situation. Sorry that you have to experience it. It happened in our case as well with my mother. I don't have many positive input to add unfortunately, my relationship with my mother is damaged (from my point of view for sure, I haven't heard her honest opinion yet) and I feel...
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    Reconnecting with primary after new partner?

    Welcome. It could be both. Kurt hurt you and you lost your trust. Of course you feel disconnected and insecure around him. You definitely need to work on this and tell him what is going on right now. And you are totally lost in NRE with Colby That's normal, as well. In addition to this...
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    Chatting The sms/chat-talk. I never guessed we would need to speak about this topic but Sward got a bit addicted. As I mentioned he build a friendship with Goody-Goody, neighbor's daughter. Goody is ten years younger than us and she loves her mobile. And what's app and how they are all called...
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    I am not sure as what I could classify personally. I am not social, as far as I will never seek out those contacts willingly. I just don't get this need to chat with each and everyone. But, if the situations comes up and I am asked, I don't think much and just answer and talk to people. I don't...
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    Do I? Poor me :( I can't make people comfortable around me, as it seems. :p At least there is something I learned: Never assume that people wouldn't be interested in you just because a) you don't know them or b) you think that they don't know you :cool:
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    Gossip It has gotten quiet around the baby topic by now. We are waiting for the things to come. I found a health insurance that would account for the costs for three tries of an artificial insemination. That would be a possibility as it seems. We will wait for the results of the next test...
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    Vee vs. Triad

    To keep it as simple as possible: poly is about feelings, not just about sex. Most would classify a triad as a relationship configuration where all three people are romantically involved with each other. Could even be non-sexual involvement; just emotions. In a vee two of the three people aren't...
  18. Phy

    I have just chosen polyamory over a potential monogamous life mate. Whoa.

    It sounds like you need to find yourself. If that is how it used to go up to now, you could do some soul-searching. Take your time doing so. Learn to listen to yourself, to your desires and needs. Try to find who you are. For now, even if your polyamorous ideas won't come true for some time...
  19. Phy

    In the beginning.....was confusion.

    Hey there :) I have been following your blog as well. Let me tell you that I feel for you with all that medical struggle and health issues. But somehow, I wish there was something I could actively do to improve Lin's health, like you who worked so hard for Pidge. I hope things will continue to...
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    Thanks for your sympathy, it is appreciated. ___________________ How I miss my everyday trivia. I discovered a small piece of text about Sward and my habits, where we had some points to discuss two weeks ago or so. I had my coffee “date” with Miss Prof. But I just don't feel like any of those...
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