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Polycurious_adam, I like that you are working thru thoughts and feelings. I too am working on codependency and all this poly stuff. my marriage is Christian so that adds a layer of stuff to the interest in poly, but my wife has backed off in the last month and doesn't give me any crap of...

Welcome to the forum, ive been on here a few months and really like the community.

welcome to the forum! there are other more knowledgeable members that will be around to offer assistance.

welcome to the forum! I am Married, interested in Poly, but my wife is not. I lack Poly experience, but there are others on the forum that will have more experience who will provide you more compatibility.

Adam, Welcome to the board. I have struggled with numbing emotions for many years as the result of being sexually abused by my foster mother. Finally in 2009 I started recovery and began to work on the abuse, after a few months, I started feeling, various feelings, not just numbness. Today I...

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in evaluating my own environment, I need a solid primary relationship to build poly on top of. I spent many years in online dating before meeting my wife and to apply my poly thinking to that single environment seems really hard to work with. i personally think it would be very chaotic/fluid...

Appleseed, welcome to the forum. Im still new to poly and as Marcus said, others are more knowledgeable. you mentioned..."In my opinion (not by experience) polyamory sounds great when you have a marriage/long term/stable relationship" I Identify with this, for me I don't see me being able to...

welcome to the forum. Im not to the level of many on this forum as to their knowledge of poly, but my story has a positive surprise. for months i have been talking to my wife about me being interested in poly, and there have been arguments, endless hypothetical scenario questions on her end...

welcome to the forum! there are others on the forum that will provide good advice, I dont really have much expierence yet. surf the forum, theres lots of posts with good info and others personal experience's take care

I was in a session with my therapist some time past and working on some things about my alcoholic mother. I asked her if she could hug me and say some nurturing motherly things to me, she said she could not for several reasons. But I now know that a professional cuddler could provide the hug...

Polyenvy, Welcome to the forum. My circumstances could be similar to yours. I am in a Christian marriage, married almost 10 years. I have been talking to my wife for months about being interested in poly. In 2020, I realized what I was interested in. But I'd had my first interest in it about 20...

popcorn is a reference I see on YouTube sometimes, people get the popcorn to enjoy while reading the comments on certain videos that will bring interesting comments. one meme about the popcorn is a clip of Michael Jackson in a theater eating from a popcorn bowl with words overlaid like "i came...

I like your writing style, very visual. I'm a visual thinker. I have no real poly experience yet. maybe someday but you mentioned "sinful" well I'm in a Christian marriage and my wife wants nothing to do with poly, degrades the idea, I think id get the same response if I came our as "gay"...

Knowva, welcome to the forum! im sorta new to all this, learning about myself and my interest in poly. there are plenty of really knowledgeable people on this forum that can help out if needed. take care.

OMGWTFDo_i_do, welcome to the forum. Im sortof in a similar situation to you. ive been on this forum for maybe 2 months, and desire poly and my wife doesnt. i would like a Secondary, ive learned alot on this site reading all the posts and advise. i was first interested in poly 20 years ago, but...

Echo5Tango, welcome to the forum, I'm sorry you are struggling. I cant say I have experienced what you have shared, but I appreciate you sharing your letter. this forum is really my only outlet for my interest in poly, very few around in my world get what im interested in, primary/secondary...

Vet2113, welcome to the forum. there are many knowledgeable people here that can comment on what you are going thru. me personally ive been married to my wife for about the same amount of time, and recently I mentioned to her that i was poly. we have had some rough discussions. our marriage is...

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welcome to the forum! im fairly new to the forum aswell.