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welcome to the group! what part of Florida are you in?

Mynotoar, I replied to your other post, but would like to add this, there exists professional cuddling organizations, 2 of them are striving to make professional cuddling a legit profession. www.cuddlist.com and www.cuddlesanctuary.com I am interested in this, my wife still says no, but it...

Hi Mynotoar, welcome to the forum. Im in a church 12 step recovery program for a variety of things including "sexual integrity" which is a softer catch all for things like pornography, lust etc... tho since ive been learning about poly I'm re evaluating what sexual integrity means to me...

Welcome MF1438, I'm in a "Christian" marriage and my wife wont consent to anything related to poly. although we don't have a sexless marriage, I do desire more affection than she provides and would like to seek that and an emotional connection with other women. she says in our marriage vows...

welcome to the forum. i recently realized in 2020 that i was poly, and up to that point i had been dealing with Limerence, a form of fantasy thinking. I had a fantasy woman that i was poly with, and the fantasy included the idea that i was married, which i am married. Limerence for me was hard...

welcome to the forum Uni. I'm fairly new to the forum and just recently realized I'm poly, but it was only in 2020 that I realized what to call it, but my interest goes back almost 20 years. back then i thought it was swinging i was interested in, but it was actually poly. similar to your...

greetings! you say " It initially made me feel hurt and like I wasn’t good enough (mostly because of my fundamental Christian background), but I’ve gradually gotten over that" how did you work thru this? my marriage is a "Christian" marriage, my wife at times has said she was hurt by my...

welcome Sparkygirl.... Greetings from USA

welcome Pollystraight, im in a similar environment as you. in my marriage of 7 years and together 10 with my wife, I have brought up poly to her and it has not gone well. im in my mid 40s and realized about 20 years ago I was interested in poly but only knew about swinging, so for many years i...

welcome to the forum :)

my wife sees our marriage as monogamous from a "Christian" perspective, she feels like she got bait and switched with my recent discussions of my interest in poly. Ive actually been interested in poly for maybe 20 years, just back then i was calling the interest swinging, because i didn't know...

welcome to the site, im farly new here and it seems that the regulars are really nice and helpful. I think it would be fair that if he can have her as a friend, up to and including sex, that he should be ok with you having your own guy friend, up to and including sex. in my case, ive been in a...

Interesting read. im learning all i can :)

part of my childhood was spent in a abusive home with a Narcissistic Mormon Step mother and convert Father. I've spent a lot of time over the years in support groups for Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses. I'm really sorry your parents are JW's the abuse that people experience in that group pisses...

great advice!

welcome to the forum! I'm sort of new to this aswell. I've spent alot of time reading posts and threads on this forum, to learn about others but also to learn about what im interested in myself. so i would encourage you to read a lot of posts here if you have some time, you might learn more...

He and I have had conversations about having kids, getting married (I know this sounds crazy because he doesn't plan on divorcing his wife... but is it?) and he seems to love me in the way that I love him - which would lead to building a life together - but I'm really not sure what to do? hi...

ARC, welcome to the forum. although i have no actual poly experience, i'm the man wanting poly, but in my case my wife says no to me and to her. my wife and I have been married a long time, we both agree we have a great marriage, we do see a therapist mainly for her issues from childhood (i...

welcome to the group Cher. its ok to cry :) I experienced sexual abuse when i was a child and it caused my emotions to shut down for many years. when i got into recovery over 10 years ago i started working on recovery with my sponsor and i began to heal, in time i began to start feeling again...