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First off I HATE IT when people just stop responding to messages! I have had it happen several times on OKC... Its so lame and shallow.... OKC is flakey girl central. In the case of the woman you're not interested in, as long as you haven't talked specifics, and you don't mind the occasional...

Hello all, Been around here a while but haven't added to this topic... I am Andy. I am 26. I am married and in a open relationship. My wife is not poly, but has been amazingly supportive of me finding someone to explore with. We live in southern Minnesota, about 2 hours south of the...

It doesn't look overly active in my area, but yup, its still there . :)

I am open to a LDR. I have searched for polies on OKC on a 500 mile radius or so. I hate to look so far out we could never meet though. I highly doubt I am going to be the reason a west coast dweller wants to move to this arctic wasteland...... :/

Well I read some reviews on lavalife. Sounds like a dud - have to pay to message people unless you're a woman, filled with fake profiles, mostly popular in Canada ect. I have checked a lot of OKC question answers. There are several that hint at the idea of open relationships. Most women...

Yep, I have seen that thread. But thanks for mentioning it again. The MNpoly group I don't know about. I hate things you have to pay first to see whats inside. Maybe there is 400 active members. Maybe 4 horny guys. I have no idea. Typically I feel if you have to pay, most people won't bother...

No... Still seeking those too.... I was hoping that if I could meet some localish poly folks even just as friends.... they may know if there even is anything around here.

I have not tried Lavalife. I will take a peek. Yes.... I always wonder if there is some woman on OKC that isn't familiar with Poly, but would actually like what I am wanting.... :/ The situation I seek is kinda fluid.. and I can't help be think maybe there is a girl around here that isn't...

I saw one pay site for poly people, but I am guessing there are no members..... I don't like paying for such things anyway.... I had 2 "almost maybe turned into somethings" from a post I had on Craigslist once, but that streak of luck seems to have ended. OKC seems awesome for the single...

I've been on OKC now for quite a while and have had zero luck meeting anyone poly. 99% of the women on there seem to be looking for traditional relationships. :/ I met an awesome new friend on there, but thats about it. Anyone know of any sites more geared toward poly or open relationships...

Hello! I lie about 90 miles south of the Twin Cities area, and never really go up that way, so I don't know of any active poly communities there... I am still looking to. Have had zero luck so far, but I also live in a smaller city. (Mankato) Have you looked around on OKCupid? Some of the...

Hello! Saw you added me as a friend so I though I would say hi! Nice to see fellow polies in MN :)

only 1500 miles according to OKC... haha It is so nice knowing that there are women out there that can find enjoyment/happiness in a secondary relationship though. :) It just makes me feel better somehow. :)

I signed up a few weeks ago. Same name as here - Andy4700- but really haven't added much info..... Looks great if you're single and wanna date/meet folks... but have any of you other guys had luck meeting women that are interested in secondary relationships? I'm having doubts.... I need a tale...

Hi Sage, Thanks for replying. I am kind of new to this, but isn't a triad where all 3 people have feelings/love for each other? I don't think that is going to happen here. best I can hope for is my wife and my secondary partner are friendly toward each other. As far as turning fantasy into...

This I like... Strikes a chord with me. :)

Welcome! I am new here too. :)

Hello all. I recently joined this board and am finding it helpful, and hopeing to stick around a while, so I might as well introduce myself a bit. My name is Andy. I am 26 years old. I am married and have no children. My wife and I have been married 3 years now. Together almost 7. I am...

By 'unschool' are you referring to 'homeschool'? I was homeschooled from 5th grad through graduatuion. It has left me with very mixed feelings. :confused: I just noticed I was supposed to only post one bucket list item at a time.... shows how bright I am..... TGIF... haha

Climb mount Kilimanjaro and see the sun rise across Africa Learn to speak fluent Polish Spend a year living in Eastern Europe Learn to play guitar and piano Experience atleast one poly relationship. :)