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  1. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    😂 You're real. At least, I'm pretty sure you are. 😉
  2. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    Yeah, I noticed that. :) I will have to put something up in the personals section. I'd love to make some poly friends to chat with, even if they aren't available or interested in my type of situation. Or, who knows? Maybe I can meet someone for something real. I have a much more positive...
  3. Andy4700

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    The story behind mine is not overly interesting. My name is Andy, I share it with 5 or 6 billion other people it seems... Adding my surname narrows that down to about 1 billion.... haha The 4700 I got from the International truck 4700 chassis.... fascinating huh? :p On most forums I am...
  4. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    You certainly give me hope.
  5. Andy4700

    Facebook Friends

    My rule is that anyone I add on facebook has to be part of my real life... either as a real life friend or family member, or as an online friend that I talk to frequently. I don't like having people on the list that I no longer am in contact with.
  6. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    Are you speaking of women who have been married, but are now divorced? Or women who are still married and looking for more, kind of the female version of what I want? I can see how what you're saying could make sense to a divorced woman who has no desire to remarry, but still wants to be loved...
  7. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    Just reread your post. Do you see many married women in the poly world that are seeking just a boyfriend? I am not at all opposed to that situation, but I guess where I have seen that situation is when the wife is bored and cheats. I'm not cool with that. But it would be fine if her husband were...
  8. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    I am actually really open on the age, to a point. I will be 27 on Saturday. I'd be open to ages from 18-40ish, provided there is mutual attraction. But anything much over that could make it awkward for me. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone as old or older then my parents or...
  9. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    I am feeling a lot more hopeful after finding this community. :) I was starting to question the idea of a woman enjoying her place as a secondary partner, but I am getting the impression it's not nearly as rare as I was thinking. I've been doing a lot of reading here. I'm coming up with a lot...
  10. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    If she wanted, I think I could deal with it. The problem is, she's is totally not interested in it. I've talked to her about it before. So that rules out more of the swinging-type lifestyle, or finding another couple to swap with, or something. She basically says she is fine with me having...
  11. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    Yes, I am glad too. It was the chick who runs this blog about poly, http://rosephase.blogspot.com/ Maybe she is a member here too? I was getting kind of bummed by the negativity and she thankfully popped in with a brighter outlook. I am hoping to maybe finally be understood here. It feels nice...
  12. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    Thank you for the replies. I fall in love quite easily. If things were to work out as I hope, I am going to love this hypothetical person, maybe not on the same level as my wife, but I am quite certain I would develop feelings for her. But in my twisted mind I don't feel like that will make...
  13. Andy4700

    New to polyamory, looking for input

    Hello everyone, I am looking to bounce something off the polyamorous community here and just get some feedback. I posted an abridged version of this on a traditional relationship advice board and got an overwhelminglt negative response. A member there suggested this forum. I am going to expand...
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