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I know you said it’s a burner account so I just want to make you aware that on this website you do not have autonomy over your own content like most other sites. So you cannot burn your account. You are not allowed to edit your content after a period of time has passed. Please keep that in...

I know a lot can be said about this situation. But what this all culminated to is your wife breaking up with you. And if you can’t figure out what to do next maybe you should seek solo counseling to talk about your attachment issues.

I think it is a useful discussion in a relationship as it relates to the unique dynamic… I also think broad generalizations about gender directed at individual people can be hurtful in the same way it can be when race and sexuality are used in the same way… That is a tricky thing to navigate...

Men fall into the social obligation trap too…. Fighting social norms is something we all deal with. Like the universal expectation for the man to pay for the date or take on a provider role is something I deal with when dating. For every woman complaining about “men” being slobs or only...

If you aren’t doing it for more matches/dates I am struggling to understand your motivation…

Dishonesty because “guys” have a hard time? Because “women” are dishonest? Just own it…. If you lie because you get more matches, and you enjoy that attention/engagement/practice? That’s fine. I’m not judging. I left out the “poly” in my profile for a time to figure out my best pictures...

I will say it again... Love cannot be stomped out... You are stuck in a cycle; it is clear Wife has chosen to deceive you rather than leave you. For whatever reason. Back on the emotional carousel ride again, until you catch her in another lie. When will you choose to get off the ride? Just...

I think it's immature to reduce the issue further with name calling. Honestly. wow. And you insult a man by calling him a derogatory term that is slanderous to women? And then go on about feminism? I'm so confused because the term "bitch-ass" is a slander men call each other when one of the...

I am in a very similar situation to your own, since 2017. I have some thoughts, not to be confused with criticism, just little things I have noticed along my journey. Failure to disclose a poly situation to a roommate can lead to distress for that person. From a friend or outsider’s...

If I could choose just one superpower, it would be the ability to create more time… I am back from New Mexico, 5lbs heavier. There aren’t many things I miss about where I grew up, but the food… I miss the food.. There are so many things I want to journal about... Though I feel like I have to...

Are people generally so sensitive? My first date with Daisy and Bird was at a brewery and we sat at a two person square table and I pulled a third chair from somewhere else and sat in the middle. After that we went to a bar and I think Bird and Daisy sat next to each other and I next to Daisy...

Dinner, cooking Broadway, comedy show, ball game Museum, aquarium, zoo Painting and cocktail class Horseback riding, hiking, skiing Trivia, board games, karaoke Bowling, mini golf, bumper boats, kart racing Rafting trip, canoes, traveling, tours, exploring, walking Options are endless…. You...

This is an interesting topic because there are so many variables in every individual’s life, and when you multiply those variables by the number of people in a relationship the result is an exponential growth of chaos to deal with. lol Career goals and ambitions alone for some individuals might...

Back from SoCal... Family stuff went well… Everyone attending the reunion, about eighteen of us, all stayed in a large Oceanside Airbnb. We didn’t arrange lodging so there was some uncertainty about sleeping arrangements prior to the trip. Our trio ended up with two private bedrooms and that...

Flying tomorrow. Not my favorite activity. Love to travel, do not love flying... Daisy thinks I have trouble differentiating feelings of anxiety and excitement. That is probably accurate. I should work on that. Xanax for now... We are all attending a family reunion on my mothers side. I...

I think you are already living a polyamorous lifestyle with Tiffany. Maybe I am splitting hairs... The way I interpret your situation is that you desire a relationship configuration that you aren't getting... You aren't working with any promises of ever attaining the relationship structure you...

I have noticed a lot of people in traditionally monogamous relationships go through a sort of crisis when the realization comes (when they get the feels for someone else).. And that crisis appears to happen often in people living in societies with love based marriage. I know you aren't...

Busy weekend. Prepping for a trip to SoCal on Friday. Shopping is done, and now it's up to amazon to deliver my socks on time. I have too many clothes and need to cull the herd. I made a small change to my workout; doubling the amount of time in extension for weight lifting. It feels really...

Have you known about the poly desires from the conception of the relationship or are these feelings something new to you?

Borrowing wisdom from the future I see… 😉