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What was it that attracted you to him? What about him made you fall for him?

Thank you for that suggestion. This quote stuck out to me "So for some of these women, they authentically did not feel attracted to women before they met one particular woman that they completely fell in love with." I think that might describe my wife's feelings. Now, the question is, does...

That is who I would like to hear from: someone that fell in love with a gender they had not previously been attracted to, but I wanted to leave it open to any situation. Maybe someone significantly older or younger, maybe a different look. Like if you had always been attracted to petite blonds...

We have had one-on-one sex a few times, but her strongest orgasms always happen when Cookie is there - holding her, kissing her, looking into her eyes. Cookie has asked Pumpkin about the faces she makes at these times - Pumpkin confessed to Cookie that she is not accustomed to feeling so good...

Maybe someone can shed a little light on something that is always in the back of my mind. My wife had never expressed any interest or attraction to the opposite sex. I imagine it was the emotional closeness that she developed with her friend that made her start to think, "What if?" and begin to...

I could see how much my wife and her friend cared for each other, so I gave my blessing for them to be physical. The friend likes being with both of us, so I joined them in a triad. If she wanted my wife only, we'd probably have a V and I would still be monogamous. My motivation was to see two...

Another of my insecurities is: What are the odds that Pumpkin would also love me? I know that Pumpkin loves Cookie. I can understand this. Cookie is a kind, intelligent, beautiful, wonderful woman. That's why I fell for her. Maybe I have trouble feeling like I deserve love, but I have...

I'm seeing a therapist to work out my insecurities. I do let the girls make a lot of decisions. Some of that is because I feel guilt over letting my marriage degrade to the point that Pumpkin had to move in to support Cookie. I should have been there to support her, but I had shut myself off...

I think part of the issue might be that Cookie is still really feeling the NRE. This is her first girlfriend and she is experiencing a lot of 'first times' with her. The NRE may be causing her to focus more on Pumpkin. They are both looking much happier than they have been in a very long time...

The girls got home from their trip last night. I had gotten home from my trip Thursday night. This was not their first trip together. I think it only bothered me this time because I had been away and was missing the contact. A trip with just Cookie would be nice, so would a trip with Pumpkin. I...

Last night the ladies surprised me by coming to bed in matching lingerie. It was a feast for the eyes. The sex was great - I think it is getting better every time as we learn more about how to work as three - but more importantly, I finally got the close physical touching that I crave. Just...

Just me. I can manage on my own if there are activities, like going to a park or zoo.

After I got home from my trip, we had one night together before the women left to spend three days at a B&B. This was planned, and knowing that I was going to feel lonely and left out, I had told them that I wanted to feel appreciated that night. I'm sleeping alone for two weeks (minus one)...

I'm away on a business trip and feeling quite lonely thinking about how Cookie and Pumpkin are making love while I'm alone in a hotel room. I know it's part of this lifestyle and I'm reminding myself that they deserve to be happy.

We are currently having dinner with Cookie's family, parents, brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews. Pumpkin loves being part of a big family. She was an only child. I wonder what the family thinks of Pumpkin? No one is asking questions, just accepting she is part of the family now. Do they...

We have this in common. I could never have imagined breaking my beliefs in marriage and monogamy, but for wife? The girl of my dreams? The greatest love of my life? Yeah, I did it for her. It's caused me a lot of strife and sleepless nights as I examined ideas that had been ingrained in me...

Maybe she didn't want to broach a tough topic until she had a sense that you were worth the time and energy it takes to explain it all. If she had let you know earlier, you might have freaked out and bailed - and she liked you too much to risk that, or maybe she was afraid that you would be the...

The night before last, the two girls stayed in Pumpkin's room. I slept alone and felt lonely. Last night, we three shared the bed, but Pumpkin and Cookie spent the night embracing face-to-face while I was spooned up to Pumpkin's back. This also felt lonely, pressed up to a back, and not even my...

I'm still shocked when I think about how excited Cookie is by Pumpkin. She had never admitted any inclinations in the over twenty years I've known her. I had even asked her once years ago if she had "experimented," and she said she never had. I asked Pumpkin last night when she realized she...

I guess the girls had a good night in Pumpkin's room because Cookie woke me up early, already charged up and ready to go. Later, over breakfast, Cookie told me that when they talked last night Pumpkin said I looked happier lately than she had ever seen me and asked if I'd ever been happy...