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I remember the wine! Glad you got a new batch and it's all wine under the bridge now :)

I wrote a long update and walked away before posting so it was all lost. Weekend trip was great. Holidays. Polyamory and open relationships and time. I am not happy. Prof just texted that he is out of town and cancelled Wednesday. "Out of town" is 30 minutes away. He is likely with Ms Cherry...

Feeling a little beat down. Having managed to repair my washing machine boot, garbage disposal, removed and replaced the toilet by myself ( 2 week project ) the gods have now thrown me a broken shower arm. Having cleaned up the water that sprayed everywhere and reassuring child that these...

Jane: Really good work! Glad you are feeling good about it all. You are inspiring me to do more. I had to give up my gym membership due to budget restraints and I am struggling to make up the lost cardio and weights. At the end of the day it is Calories In Calories Out ( CICO ) but the...

Online dating currently seems to be nothing but flakes. Back when I first started meeting the vast majority would turn up, now the vast majority make flakey plans and then flake. I have a friend who often asks when are getting together and rarely follows through with my offer of days and...

So Halloween night was good fun, nice dinner, music and hotel with a view with Prof. Mr Lime spent the weekend, I got tickets to an event on Friday, dinner, cocktails, 2 nice walks, a sunrise and sunset, some cooking, lots of sex. Mr Lime has asked a few times about what I want from...

Mr Lime continues to be very enthusiastic. It is a little unusual and over whelming. He wants to have almost every free second on my calendar. He wanted to come down for 2 nights this weekend and I said fine but I need time to go and do some of my stuff alone, maybe meet my friend for lunch. He...

Friday night with Prof. He denied ever saying Ms Cherry was interested in the money. I didn't argue. He also said don't recycle conversations that we had where alcohol had been consumed, a very fair comment. He was the one that brought up the "state of our relationship" discussion; I had no plan...

Had to do a schedule shift with Prof due to work so we just had a booty call :) on the way out the door he said, " I love you." That is so uncommon that I had to blog it! Neither of us are big on the " I love yous." I do go through occasional bouts of trying to say it more but it never lasts...

Part II So the calendaring thing. Makes me nervous, as I am a scheduler in recovery, but Mr Lime is also asking for dates. I did connect a non-work electronic calendar to my phone, I have been avoiding doing that. I had quite a long text chat with Mr Lime over the scheduling and time...

Lots of good things. The wedding weekend was just wonderful, hanging out with the cousins for the first time in 15 years! We had lots of periods in life where we lived very close to each other and we were more like siblings. Prof got on well with everyone and took great photos. He told me that...

Mr Lime doesn't want to do open relationships or polyamory or any version of non-monogamy. He wants to just date one person. We had an extensive discussion about him still being married and his FWB and that he has been doing some form of open relationship and/or informed non-monogamy for a...

I interpret NRE as mostly the E part. Energy. It's the energy to stay up late talking and hanging out, having sex in the middle of the night, squeezing in moments here and there with a new person. Then it gets to the point where I say I just can't maintain that level of excitement/energy and I...

Weds with Prof was interesting, we had a bit of talk about dating and partners. He told me a long time ago that lies because he can and does it to see if people ever call him out on it, ego in extremis. He is spinning his monogamous gf lies and half truths, he spins me a number of lies too, I...

Mr Lime asked me to join him while he is out of state next month while he is watching his "kids" for almost 2 weeks. They are actually mid and late teens so don't require a whole lot of looking after, mostly make sure they don't burn the house down while mom is out of town. He offered to pay for...

The weekend with Mr Lime went very well! On Friday night we went to see the new Predator movie, which was pretty silly, entertaining enough but certainly not good. We then went out for cocktails and both got a bit drunk. I had a hangover on Saturday morning and was useless till nearly 11 am so...

Signature update. Mr PoD out Mr Lime in, very early days but while I was deleting the old I might as well add the new. Life is mostly fine. Menopause has slightly returned. I had myself a mild anxiety moment on the drive to work and ended up calling Mr Lime and expressing my worries about...

Trying not to over message with Mr Lime. When I first starting online chat with him I was texting and talking with Mr Wrong Direction a lot and so would answer Mr Lime infrequently. I think that was actually the right way to go, even though it was unintentional, I think it created a little air...

I googled the sweet wine. It does look rather delicious. I understand SB not wanting you to drink alone. Maybe it was because you had the whole bottle and not just a glass or 2? It is sweet that she cares so much about you.

So what happened about the wine? and what wine was it?