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I was a secondary for a while, in every sense of the word. It sucked big time. My current partner and his primary had a 3 page list of rules about how they could interact with other partners. Mostly it entailed treating the secondary as a sex partner and not allowing a real relationship to...

For me, it depends on the validity of the reason and how often "things come up". Canceling for work or kids reasons is always valid. Forgotten tickets would be fine on one occasion. Being very sick is also fine, for a sniffle I give the other person the option to cancel, you never know about...

Mr PoD had a meltdown and I am fine to let it be over. I sent him a text asking how his daughter was doing. He replied that I am poly and don't get to ask those types of questions. It was certainly a WTF moment. He has decided he doesn't like poly people and I am fine for just food and a fuck...

Mr PoD popped up to ask why I hadn't been in contact. I said I had and he never replied. He actually apologized profusely said he he had a lot of issues with kid #2 starting middle school and has been stressed and picked up a lot of work at the same time. I told him to stop deleting messages the...

What a lovely update. I hope things continue to go well for you.

Mr Wrong Direction kept saying he could make it work, we carried on chatting and me avoiding making plans with him. Having told him twice it was not going to work out and that really not getting anywhere I am doing to slow text fade. Short responses and no questions. He hasn't initiated...

I gave up on meeting metas a few years ago after being dragged into drama on more than one occasion. Them being older or younger didn't make any difference, their love of drama did. Everything is much easier for me now I have no knowledge of who is coming and going in anyone else's life. I can...

I had to tell Mr Opposite Direction that it really wasn't going to work out due to the direction and travel time. We were planning on meeting for dinner tonight but even meeting halfway meant over an hour in traffic. I called him and said I had just spent an hour in the car and couldn't face...

Two year update. Still in the same weight range I was. Still would like to lose 10lbs.

I messed up by texting a basic message to Mr Opposite Direction that was meant for Mr In The Right Direction. ugh. I felt shitty. The message wasn't awful, just a basic "I enjoyed meeting you and here is my phone number" Mr Opposite Direction said he wasn't replied that he wasn't expecting a...

I met Mr Opposite Direction. We took a walk with the dog had a drink and a small plate and chatted up at storm. We had a nice kiss as I was getting in my car, then I drove home. I didn't get in till nearly 12. It is a solid hour with no traffic. I just can't do it :( There will be no popping...

I send messages when I want to and if they don't reply then they don't reply. You will get a feel soon enough for if they text when free, text all day long, don't like texting at all, prefer the phone, hate talking on the phone or are just low interest. I have friends and lovers who fit into all...

SilenceBreaking, I am sorry I didn't respond to your reply. I don't often look back to see what I wrote and I missed your message entirely. Mr Car has hang ups about his own appearance which is why the bottom half of his face is hidden in any photo. His is projecting his lack of confidence onto...

No wonder she was stressing so much. good for you for doing your research and making an informed choice. I hope the relationships continues to grow for you both.

I had just a few work emails tonight and I didn't have to respond to any of them, simply reading for information. There is the distinct possibility that I am bored already. One of my co-workers chatted to me for 2 hours this afternoon. I haven't shared an office for 4 years, usually people walk...

New job is going fine. I am keeping my mouth shut and not trying to fix anything. I am driving a lot as I take the kids across town in the morning, 2 drop offs then back in the opposite direction to get to work. It's taking about 2 hours in the afternoon to do the pick ups and get home because...

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I have pretty much lost patience with Mr Car. He is very happy to text all day but no suggestion of meeting up again. I have put out ideas twice and they have been met with a reply of "not sure."So I have gone ahead and made other plans and filled up both this weekend and next. Weds night with...

And another one pops up! Can't remember the name I gave him last year, I saw him a couple of times in December. Mr Agent will work. I did see him on Bumble recently so suspected the relationship has ended, that one that he stopped seeing me to pursue. He lives in what is now the wrong direction...